Why do people say insensitive crap!

[mydream]

I was talking with a woman today ...who said to me "wow you are brave for having 3 kids....I would have had 3 but I know too many people who have horrific stories about their 3rd pregnancy, child being born not healthy etc"...
why the **** would she say that knowing I am due soon!
so upset now and worried of course.

[BeadinMom]

Some people are so self absorbed!!!
PLEASE don't worry about that lunatic...all 3 of my boys were perfectly healthy...I had great pregnancies & everything was so uneventful. And I know SO MANY ladies with the same story.

Please relax & enjoy the end of your pregnancy...that sweet little girl will be here before you know it!!!

[Tiggerian]

Oh its so typical people!! It's the same thing with peoples need for telling you how horrific their births were the first time you're pregnant.

There's always someone who has to butt in and tell you some crap you really don't need or want to hear just because they can't keep their mouth shut.

Ok fair enough she thinks you're brave for having three kids - that would be legitimate enough, but did she ahve to include the end bit!?

[Princess of Pink]

Don't stress it hon!! I'm going for #6 and all of my kids are healthy and labours were pretty easy to be honest, and there are people on here with more kids than me!! What a stupid reason to not have 3 kids!!

[Mrs_P]

All three of mine to were fine and healthy, although the midwife did tell that labors with the third can be the trickiest (but not with a negative outcome, just that 3rd babies can be little monkeys). Mine was, he was 8 days late and didn't want to come out but after i actually got into labor it was the easiest one i had - he was out in minutes and perfect - just took him while to decide to come.

Hope you have a good labor and i'm sure you and baby will be fine - after all there are so many of us on here going back for a forth, the third can't have been that bad x

[Cinss]

Its really less about YOU and more about her justifying things to herself, dont worry about it!

[mydream]

Thanks ladies!! Feeling better. I knew you would help !

[Butterfly Spirit]

What a RUDE BEECH! I would have said "That's too bad, I wouldn't let someone else's life determine my dream of having 3 kids." "My baby's healthy and will be here soon!"

Don't let her get you down! Your long awaited daughter is almost here!!!!

[fairyfrog]

My third pregnancy and birth was the BEST every!!!

[Tiggerian]

I've heard a lotof people saying the third was their best and easiest pregnancy and birth!