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    Boy moms please help me out with timing

    I just wanted to find out from you if any of you dtd everyday from the onset of a +opk to -opk & still got your boy. The reason i ask is my dh hadnt released for 4 days prior to last night when we dtd & i had also got a +opk so i thought it's best we went for it, i'm now trying to figure out if i should do it again tonight or wait till the day after but all this also depends on how many days of +opks i get. I usually get 2-3days but that can change from time to time

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    I have a 3 year old DS, we DTD from the time the line started getting darker to about 5 days after a + OPK, just to be safe.

    This time I DTD a few times before the + OPK, and then the night of the +OPK and didn't again. Not because I was hoping for one or the other (of course I'd love a little girl) but because DH got sick and couldn't do it anymore that week.

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    With ds2 I dtd every other day from ewcm, didn't use opk but probably amounts to same thing. Good luck!

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    With my first boy I didnīt use OPKīs and went by CM, we DTD just once on O or the day before O.
    With my second I used OPKīs but only that month so I donīt know if I had a fade pattern, if I remember well we dtd the second day I had a positive OPK, only once.
    I had a very boy friendly diet though (rich breakfast, pizza, spinach, tomatosauce, always snacking and tons of raisins) and I really believe timing isnīt that important.
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    Thanks ladies, been on diet for a long time now so i hope that it will overcome timing

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    With DS1 we were doing frequent BD through O, although no OPKs. With DS2 and DS3 they were both 1 off 'accidents' dtd either on O day or the day before.
    This time we dtd every day or other day stopping 2-3 days before O. We stopped 24 hours before first strong positive opk. We were ttc a girl.
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    yes, TMI but we DTD 9 times in the 7 day period over OV (CBFM let us know when I was entering my fertile period) because I was so desperate to get pregnant again after my MC. on the peak days we did it twice each day just to boost our chances as much as possible

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    Quote Originally Posted by babydes56 View Post
    I just wanted to find out from you if any of you dtd everyday from the onset of a +opk to -opk & still got your boy. The reason i ask is my dh hadnt released for 4 days prior to last night when we dtd & i had also got a +opk so i thought it's best we went for it, i'm now trying to figure out if i should do it again tonight or wait till the day after but all this also depends on how many days of +opks i get. I usually get 2-3days but that can change from time to time
    Well, it's too late for me to answer this now but DH and I DTD several times in a row around O with DS 2 and 3.
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    Quote Originally Posted by babydes56 View Post
    Thanks ladies, been on diet for a long time now so i hope that it will overcome timing
    It totally will. Diet is so much better than timing.
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