Who can educate me.. from Australia?

[Deux Bleus]

I'm planning on TTC toward the end of the year or next year and am still deciding whether I sway or not, or rather, how much swaying I will do.
I just need all the 'correct' info I can get, and kind of needed it broken down to me so I can understand it It all gets a little complex for me at times, not to mention contradicting and then I give up!

As far as I know, I have to diet, take supplements (this I'm really unsure of) & timing.

Reg timing, whats the more successful way: Cut off, all the way through or after O?
Do I DTD every day, once or every second day?
A couple of friends of mine all claim to have conceived their daughters by DTD every second day and then stopping between 2-5 days before O. I'm pretty sure I have read on here that this is not the way to do it?? eeeek... Im so lost!

Please offer any advice, I truly appreciate it all.

Thanks for reading and goodluck in getting your desired gender

[TTC5]

I am from Australia too

I have four girls and could guarantee we conceived them wayy before ovulation as we bd right after af was gone every day, if not every second day lol.

[jane]

i have 3 girls and we dtd as much as we could,i had no idea about swaying,so we probably did it too far in advance

[TTC5]

i have 3 girls and we dtd as much as we could,i had no idea about swaying,so we probably did it too far in advance

Neither did I!! Looking back I can now see why I have 4 girls! Unless of course this next one is another girl lol

[jane]

Neither did I!! Looking back I can now see why I have 4 girls! Unless of course this next one is another girl lol

oooooh,i really hope you get your boy, youve worked so hard and you're giving me hope

[TTC5]

I hope so too, this is it for us DH said today =(

[Deux Bleus]

TTC5, are you pregnant atm? Obv you swayed?
Ill send all my blue energy your way

So, If I DTD every day or every 2nd day from as soon as AF finishes and do a cut off, this may work?

[jane]

I hope so too, this is it for us DH said today =(

i wonder if you can help me with ph testing kits as i got one but it doesnt seem to show results,is it cos im not ovulating do you think?

[Deux Bleus]

If it helps, I know that I dtd on O day with my 2 DS I also 'jumped and dumped' and had a 'rich' diet with lots of goodies and baddies hehe.

[TTC5]

TTC5, are you pregnant atm? Obv you swayed?
Ill send all my blue energy your way

So, If I DTD every day or every 2nd day from as soon as AF finishes and do a cut off, this may work?

I am 3dpo =)

I think every 2 days is good.. do you ovulate regularly? My husband has protected sex on CD9 and then he abstained for 4 days straight. I was praying to bd on cd 13 so I would hopefully ovulated cd 14 (2-4 days abstainance is best they say) give or take a day.. I did ovulate on cd 13/14!!