Help needed quick!!

[Fbunny3]

Hi everyone
I will try and keep this short and sweet!
I'm a mummy to two beautiful boys and DH has agreed to try for a girl!)
We are both aged 32.
Diet has been in place for a while now, I don't exercise that much tho, only yoga twice a week
I have bought clearblue advance digital ov tests and could do with the following help:
I'm Due to ov this friday(5 days time) and I'm panicking with how to best approach this.... Do I BD every day from now or do I hold out till positive opk? Or do I release DH every day and then just BD on the day I get positive result??
Also would you jump and dump? I didn't do this before and could this be the result of my two DS?
Could really do with some help as I know I'm running out of time?!
Thanks in advance!
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[greeneyes]

Best results are showing one attempt at pos opk. As for the frequent release, I THINK daily if you aren't abstaining and if you aren't doing much extra j&d is okay?? Sure someone else will chime in and correct me if I'm wrong!


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[Fbunny3]

Thanks green eyes, I prob sound a bit silly asking questions that have already been answered but it's hard to take it all in! So on ov day would you recommend to release hubby first then BD? Or just go for BD? And is that just the one BD? Or is it better to get a few gos in that day? What about the days there after? Do u have to stop BD again?
Thanks anyone that can help!
X

[greeneyes]

Just one attempt in fertile window so one attempt at pos opk and no more attempts.


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[atomic sagebrush]

I answered the one q in the other thread.

I can just about guarantee you that the reason you had boys is NOT down to whether you jumped and dumped or not.

I think we are seeing best results with conception with one attempt with jump and dump after 5 minutes and NOT immediately. I only recommend immediate j and d when people are doing a lot of attempts.

[atomic sagebrush]

Thanks green eyes, I prob sound a bit silly asking questions that have already been answered but it's hard to take it all in! So on ov day would you recommend to release hubby first then BD? Or just go for BD? And is that just the one BD? Or is it better to get a few gos in that day? What about the days there after? Do u have to stop BD again?
Thanks anyone that can help!
X

answered most of this in other thread but after ovulation, you can DTD if you want to for fun, but ~may~ want to avoid female O, in case you do not conceive this month and want to keep your testosterone down for future month's attempt. (i doubt this matters very much though!)

[Fbunny3]

Thank you so much atomic for replying truly appreciate it! right well let's see wat happens then, I'm going to FR DH from now until the morning of ov, then BD and see what happens!!)

Oooo quick question, when I get the positive ov result, is that the ov day?? I may sound ridiculous asking that but I'm sure I read someone say it's the day after???
So would I get the fixed smiley face and hold off till the next day to BD?
Huge thanks with the advise
X

[greeneyes]

Thank you so much atomic for replying truly appreciate it! right well let's see wat happens then, I'm going to FR DH from now until the morning of ov, then BD and see what happens!!)

Oooo quick question, when I get the positive ov result, is that the ov day?? I may sound ridiculous asking that but I'm sure I read someone say it's the day after???
So would I get the fixed smiley face and hold off till the next day to BD?
Huge thanks with the advise
X

Dtd the day of you pos opk. You ovulate 12-36 hours (I believe) after your surge. If you wait too long you might miss the egg.


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[atomic sagebrush]

I think it's best odds of conception DTD the DAY of first solid smiley. Yes, this typically equates to day before ovulation but it is best to be in with attempt at least some time in advance of O, because the sperm needs time to capacitate and make it to the egg. DTD right on ovulation has cruddy results for conception (as witnessed by the Shettles/IG blue swayers who go for months without getting pg that way)

[Fbunny3]

Ah ok that makes sense atomic thank u!!! Sorry to keeeeeep asking questions, buttttt
Tomorrow is the 'big day' fingers crossed and I'm hoping for my solid smiley face, so I'm going to release DH first then DTD within 3 hours( is that what you reccomend?) then after that when shall we next DTD? Can we just keep doing it more that day/night and the next day etc or did I ought to wait before I DTD again?
Atomic you really are a star at getting back to everyone like you do, it's so appreciated xxxxx