question regarding time

[eleena2014]

hi,we will be ttc from june onwards this year,and we were planning on doing the shettles method way but now coming to this site and reading the forums,im not sure.is there truth to any methods? would people advice shettles method or 0+12? also how does the )+12 method work as im not entireally sure.tia.xx

[maidentomother]

We do not recommend those methods here. Shettles has been disproven and was never successful to begin with. O + 12 is nearly impossible to time correctly and has very low odds of conception, and is not guaranteed to result in a girl. Timing doesn't sway. We believe that how much you have sex in the 4 days leading up to and including O, along with diet & lifestyle factors (which are JUST as important), are what determine gender. Assuming you want a girl, the LE diet for at least 6 weeks prior to TTC and one attempt 1-2 days prior to O, plus at least 1 hour of cardio exercise at least 6 times a week, are the most successful tactics.

[The Anchor]

Shettles was debunked. XX and XY sperm swim equally fast. There are not many sites that promote this anymore (barring those trying to sell the book).

If you want to sway Gender Dreaming style, you need to start reading. Start here:
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...ete-index.html

If you want to take some of the leg work out of it, maybe consider getting a personalized plan from Atomic. We've been getting great results. GL!

[marriedmomof2]

There is no sure fire chance that you will get a girl. Swaying just helps tip the odds in your favor, if you are like others on here, and can watch O for months before that's great. Or like me, I will not be looking for O. So Atomic suggests bding every four days, you DON'T have to narrow it to 1-2 days before O. In the "at home workout" post about a month ago, Atomic her self said this
I think the 60 min. is more important than the 7 days a week, if you could manage 4 or 5 days instead that would still probably be ok. If it's only going to be 2-3 times a week I feel less confident in that amount.

[atomic sagebrush]

I don't recommend either and you can read why here:

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...le-timing.html

http://genderdreaming.com/forum/tryi...9-no-12-a.html

If you still want to do them after that just let me know and I will link ya to the how-to threads.

[eleena2014]

right so just dtd starting from a few days before ovulation and on ovulation day? or just one attempt around ovulation?
i dont think we will be trying shettles method or 0+12

[maidentomother]

Just one attempt!

[eleena2014]

is that proven to be enough?

[maidentomother]

Oh yes, it is definitely enough, especially if well timed (right after positive OPK).

[SamS_TTCPink]

Defiantly enough! That's how I got my BFP (one attempt at positive OPK)
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