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  1. August 14th, 2014, 09:48 AM #1
    eleena2014
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    abstain/bd question....help!

    need help and advise.as some of you know we are doing a girl sway.im due to have a +opk nxt tuesday.
    we bd on sunday and tuesday (just got carrried away) doing the pull out method,and he is abstaining now till +opk is this ok,have i got it right? he would be abstaining for approx 7 days
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  2. August 14th, 2014, 09:51 AM #2
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    That's right.

    My Ovulation Chart     currently TTC, Cycle #16 since last BFP

    TTC #1 - swaying pink on & off since Nov 2013 - hoping for a girl first but excited for either!

    Dec 2001 - May 2006 : 5 early abortions of healthy singletons (3 medical @5w, 2 surgical @8w, last 4 pregnancies conceived with late DH, all conceived while TTA/on birth control)
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    Me: 34, widowed, late O + short LP, normal-good hormone levels excepting undetectable testosterone, seeking a known sperm donor/life partner
    My sway: vegetarian LE for over 28w, skipping breakfast, fibre (ground psyllium husks) with/before/between meals, physically inactive, drama avoidance, ocassional minimal YesBaby lube as needed, alternate cycles on low dose Clomid, double shot lattes (with meals)
    Past sway tactics I've dropped (in order): Vitex, Sudafed, antihistamines, intermittent fasting, one attempt per cycle at positive OPK, one attempt in fertile period
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  3. August 14th, 2014, 09:54 AM #3
    eleena2014
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    good,hes 29 so age isnt a problem for doing that.
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  4. August 14th, 2014, 10:09 AM #4
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    If it doesn't work out to 7 days don't worry about it. Frequency ( abstaining or FR) probably only sways a tiny bit, and less and less ladies are using it as we find other things that sway "harder" but stress seems to play a larger role!!! So don't be a martha!
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  5. August 14th, 2014, 02:17 PM #5
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