Hoping and praying for a boy, find out tomorrow at elective U/S!

[cheriex333]

Please send lots of blue dust my way! Will update with results.

[Claire33]

good luck!

[Ashforblue]

Fx for you!!

[Violet Winter]

Good luck! I hope you hear boy.

[Magical22]

Good luck take my blue dust!


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[LinzNicuRN]

Praying for blue for you!


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[MrsECullen]

Good luck!

[cheriex333]

I have been crying nonstop since yesterday morning when we found out it's a girl.
For the first few hours I was in disbelief and was numb, I reasoned it must have been a shy boy and looked up mistakes that could happen at a 14 week ultrasound.

I'm so depressed right now and have locked myself up in the guest bedroom. DH is worried but I can't help the tears keep ********* down. This is our first and most likely our last so I may never have a boy.
I think the reason I had wanted a boy so bad is because 6 years ago I had an abortion that would have been a boy. I regret it every single day and still imagine that we would get to redeem ourselves with a boy. Also I grew up with brothers then helped raised my 3 nephews so I am familiar with boys and am scared with anything girly.

I am so depressed and feel trapped and suffocated. I know I would never hurt my baby but I can't imagine raising a girl. I'm feeling hopeless and devasted.

[atomic sagebrush]

Cherie I am so sorry. It is scary when you are on your first baby anyway and do not know what to expect, but I will tell you, my daughter is exactly like my boys in every way and there is not any difference in raising her. Your experience with your brothers and nephews will only help. I know it is hard but once they put her into your arms you are going to fall in love right away and all the gender stuff will melt away.

[nuthinbutpink]

I'm sorry you did not hear boy. I wanted a boy for my first child too. I was disappointed when we first found out and I know how you feel.

Fast forward several years and she's the best gift ever. You DO have a to of experience with girls- YOU are a girl! Not all girls are girly girls. Each child is totally unique and in this day and age, a girl can be anything and do anything she wants. I'm not raising princesses in my house; I am raising badass women that are a force to be reckoned with. I'm not sure why you can only have one child but if you try again in the future for number two, you can always go HT for a guarantee.

Give yourself time. Life it what happens when we are busy making plans. This may not be your plan but it is your life so after you grieve the loss of what you thought was your ideal, once you give birth and lock eyes with this little girl, things change in a big way- for the good.