Yet another BFN, If it were you .........

[4BOYS]

What would you drop in your sway?
As the title says im 11dpo and ive just tested and another BFN after 6 months of trying im soooooo upset i really thought this month was it.
This cycle i even dropped cut off and O+12 and we BD twice 4 hours apart spot on Oday , all of my boys were all conceived first month of trying ,im only 29 so ive clearly stuffed up my fertility with swaying ( which i know is perfect for a girl), but what should i drop ? the sylk? ,antihistamines? diet?
ARGGGH this driving me CRAZY
In saying all of this i have 4 boys so my desperation for a girl outways my desperation to be pregnant , so should i just keep trying and not drop anything ?HELP THANKS

[pinkin2011]

HMMM Hard for me to say but I think you are only 29 so maybe just keep going with it your only young. If it doesnt happen within the 12 months of trying then maybe think of doing things dif.. I am 27 only have 1 ds so i think its great you have 4 children already at your age !! Wish i had a couple more my d/h wants 5!!!!!!!!! My cycle has been out of wack too, the diet really seems to shock my body and I get my af every 6 weeks when usually I am pretty much spot on, If i go on any sort of diet this always happens to me. Good luck with what ever you choose but I think you should keep going sounds like you are doing a good job!

[happyheart]

I am sorry about your BFN!

If it were me, I would cut back on things like sylk or the antihistamines before I cut out the diet. I truly believe in the diet as I have several friends that eat similar to the diet and have girls.

Can you just cut back on the sylk or the antihistamines instead of cutting them out?

GL!!

[ttcjustone]

Probably the antihistamines.

[zanacal]

I'm sorry x

I would definitely stick with the diet. Are you getting much EWCM naturally? Any idea what your pH is naturally now?

[rainbowflower]

I'd also keep the diet and drop the antihistamines/sylk

[4BOYS]

thanks for all the replies, yeah im thinking its mabey the sylk mabey ill try dropping that this time

zancal- ph is 4.5 , im still getting EWCM close to O no where near how much i get without swaying but enough to need the zyrtec
thanks again everyone

[zanacal]

I agree Sylk might be the first thing to drop then - or use less if you're using a lot? GL!

[4BOYS]

Yeah i do use alot of it ,i must be killing them all

[zanacal]

Ah, I would definitely reduce it then - I think you're only meant to use a teeny tiny bit