How do you know you are done!

[djmommy]

Hi ladies!!

I feel like a total crazy person, but I can't help but think that I would love to have another baby!! LOL My sweet girl is only 6 weeks old but I would love for her to have a sibling or even a sister. She has two older brothers but not so close in age....well 6.5 and 4 years. I just turned 40 and it took two years to conceive this one so I may not even be able to get pregnant but I would really love to have more!! I am sure my DH would not agree right now but would welcome it if it happened. Or maybe I am just hormonal and crazy!! Feel free to share any thoughts if you have any!

[XXforhubby]

Well I'm a total crazy person and am TTCing right now for baby #4! I feel the same way for my DS3- I'd love for him to have a sibling closer to his age. My two older boys are best friends and I want the same for him too. I'm swaying for a girl, but I would be equally happy with another sweet boy [emoji4]!

Good to hear from you DJ! See ya around [emoji6]!!




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[BunnyGirl19]

We were supposed to be done with the twins, but I feel like I want another still. DH says no more. I'm not sure how we'll work it out.

[Georgia_Peach]

So I am in same boat! I have 3 and am going to try and conceive in sept/ Oct this year for our 4th. Sometimes I question myself bc the dynamics right now is amazing. All the kids get along great. But I want a sibling for my daughter like my older boys.
My husband originally wanted 3 too buy now is on board with 4!

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[trifecta]

I know some lucky people have a clear feeling of being done but I think it's also very normal to always want more children on some level.

[Pbn3]

Djmommy in my experience ttc since June last year I started all gung-ho (not sure if that's an actual word lol) but I was biting at the bit. By December I just wanted to get pregnant and did (miscarriage no 1). I jumped back in straight away as it was an early miscarriage and didn't fall pregnant again until May this year and I tried my best not swaying to do so (ended in miscarriage no 2 10 weeks later). When I fell pregnant the second time I had totally given up and moved on, accepted there wouldn't be a 3rd baby and had found what I thought was complete peace with it. However after my (miracle) 2nd pregnancy all those wants and desires for a third baby came back almost overwhelmingly and now I'm biting at the bit again waiting for November to roll around so I can try again. I'm 38 years young lol but if you still feel strongly in months to come about one more I personally wouldn't waste time and just get to it as unfortunately time is not on our side. Not saying and God forbid that you'll have any issues, but better try sooner than later especially if those feelings become overwhelming. I'd start feeling your dh out about the idea even to see if its a consideration. Hope this helps and huge congrats on your newest addition

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[djmommy]

Thanks for all of your thoughts ladies...i really appreciate it. I have more to say so I'll be back. Xoxo

[djmommy]

Yea, so I spoke with DH and he looked at me crazy when I asked him if he was sure he was done! But that is what he said after we had 2...LOL..He said I don't want to be 60 changing diapers!! HA HA! We are definitely not youngish but I don't feel done either. Maybe I never will. I don't know. But I do know lots of women who feel like they are definitely done!! I am nursing and plan on it fr as long as my little wants so that will probably prevent it. Well see how things go. Thanks for all of the feedback ladies!!

[djmommy]

Djmommy in my experience ttc since June last year I started all gung-ho (not sure if that's an actual word lol) but I was biting at the bit. By December I just wanted to get pregnant and did (miscarriage no 1). I jumped back in straight away as it was an early miscarriage and didn't fall pregnant again until May this year and I tried my best not swaying to do so (ended in miscarriage no 2 10 weeks later). When I fell pregnant the second time I had totally given up and moved on, accepted there wouldn't be a 3rd baby and had found what I thought was complete peace with it. However after my (miracle) 2nd pregnancy all those wants and desires for a third baby came back almost overwhelmingly and now I'm biting at the bit again waiting for November to roll around so I can try again. I'm 38 years young lol but if you still feel strongly in months to come about one more I personally wouldn't waste time and just get to it as unfortunately time is not on our side. Not saying and God forbid that you'll have any issues, but better try sooner than later especially if those feelings become overwhelming. I'd start feeling your dh out about the idea even to see if its a consideration. Hope this helps and huge congrats on your newest addition

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Thank you PBN. I am so very sorry about your losses. It is really so unfair. I will definitely be keeping you in my prayers and keep the faith, it will happen. Just don't give up. I know how hard this whole process is and I am sure losses make it harder but that sweet baby in the end makes everything worthwhile. Hugs and prayers! XOXO

[djmommy]

XX that is soooo exciting for you!! I'll be praying and following too!! How old is your little one now? Can't believe how fast the time goes!