Question

[kt3274]

How do you explain to your husband the reasons why you want to go HT? What is a good way to get your reasoning/points across?

I'm having a hard time figuring out how to explain why I want to do this. My husband is all about facts, he responds better to the facts of things (if that makes sense) and not my emotions. I want to go HT for a girl!

[Claire33]

Tell him it's the ONLY thing you want in life at the moment. Not a big car, house, career, money, just your DG. Tell him that you don't want to be old and regret not having ever tried HT. Tell him your fertile days won't last forever, so you need to make a decision soon. It's now or never. Your ONLY dream at the moment. More important than anything material that that money can buy. Tell him that if it doesn't work, then you'll at least have peace of mind. Tell him your max amount of tries (I said to DH 3 attempts). Tell him that even if it doesn't work and you will "waste" all that money, what the money has bought you is peace of mind and no regrets, at least you tried. You will have the rest of your life to save up more money, but not the rest of your life being fertile. Good luck!