My opposite non sway long story .

[Honeysucklelanegirl]

Hi hope every one is well.
Its been a while since been on here . I was trying to sway for a girl back in 2012/13... Can't remember now! I brought a plan and realised I already swayed girl so it was pretty easy for me .I wanted to leave it a bit though.
Anyway early 2013 I got pregnant with out planning etc etc . This pregnancy ended in a miscarriage...this is where everything went bad....
Basically I never stopped bleeding for 3 years! Some days it would pour out and not stop and I would have to sit on a toilet for most of the day ( sorry if tmi but got to tell it how it was) The doctors were awful. My iron level went down to a 3 and they never even offered me iron tablets! I kept collapsing. Had black outs,put loads of weight on despite not eating loads and trying to keep walking every day. My health went completely down hill. Then i also started bleeding from everywhere you possibly could. Every time went doctors or hospital no one knew what was wrong and they would never follow up things . I had cancer tests but they came back negative and had hormone tests which kept coming back with different things .one even said I was going through menopause!Got told prob can't have children now but they will refer me to have fertility treatment ( stupid considering was so ill.)Anyway last year my head and neck started hurting .the pain was unbearable! Doctor said it was stress.....few weeks later I was admitted into hospital with a suspected brain tumor after a regular eye test. I had scans etc etc and had to have a lumbar puncture because I had do much swelling on my brain. There was no tumor but no one could explain what was wrong .I had also lost half the sight in my left eye( its back now after all the treatment).
Anyway by this point I was hardly functioning so I gave up a lot of my jobs but still tried to do my exercise which I soon had to stop as well.I started pumping myself with all sorts of vitamins, eating as healthy as could ,even forcing myself to eat loads of dairy( hate dairy food!) This was all an attempt to get well.
Anyway one day this year I collapsed quite badly ,ended up in hospital .They did some scans and found a massive blood clot! ......and.....a baby!!!!!!
They kept saying the baby was not going to make it because of the clot and because I was so ill.
Anyway he made it! Yes ,after years of research and wanting a girl I got a boy. I can see why because I was pumping my self with every vitamin tablet I could ,eating loads of cereal ,dairy ,gave up exercise and all this went on for months ,a complete change to my normal diet etc.
Anyway when he was born I did not mind one bit,would not change him for the world! He's so lucky he made it and to be so healthy. My blood clot has gone ,still got brain swelling which they think is some how conected with the clot i had but am on road to recovery . I'm just so happy with what I got and to still be a round ....Don't think my boy would appreciate that little babies pink and white dress in my cupboard I brought though haha so maybe when well will do a pink sway .

[Babygirlquest]

OMG how scary to hear about your health problems and I'm so sorry the doctors were not more proactive about helping you. I'm so glad you got your healthy baby. Fingers crossed you get your baby girl in future too.

[Honeysucklelanegirl]

Thankyou . I just hope no one else has to go through that it was awful. My boy is doing so well and he's advanced for his age despite being born early by c section as well . good luck to you as well.x

[atomic sagebrush]

OH gosh I'm so very happy to hear this!!! I still think of you often and had been wondering how you were getting on!!

I am so happy for you!! Hugest huge huge congrats and wishing you every happiness!!!!

[The Anchor]

OMG honeysuckle! So glad you are on the mend, and HUGE CONGRATS!!!

[Honeysucklelanegirl]

Hi,hope all is well. Thankyou . Its been a tuff 3 years but am getting there . thankyou for all your support . Will probably try a girl sway at some point when 100% well . So pleased with my boy though . Poor thing looks like me and nothing like his dad haha .x

[Chessika]

Congratulations! I am glad, that you are feeling better now. Wishing you all the best!