Today was my first appointment for my surprise bfp. I was supposed to be 7w5d, but have had no symptoms beyond a positive pregnancy test. Unfortunately, there was no heartbeat on the ultrasound and my sac measured 6.5 weeks, the yolk sac 6.5 mm (too big) and the baby measured only at 5.5 weeks. I am very disappointed and was hoping the lack of sickness and other symptoms were due to it being a boy, but I did wonder. I am just waiting to fully miscarry naturally in the next two weeks and hope I won't need a d&c.
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November 4th, 2011, 02:27 PM #1
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No hearbeat.
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7w5d no heartbeat, naturally miscarried at 9w4d 11/17/2011
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November 4th, 2011, 02:32 PM #2
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I am so sorry.
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November 4th, 2011, 03:11 PM #3
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so sorry for your loss
it's awful to find out at a scan like that
in case you have no symptoms next time around, don't worry... it doesn't necessarily mean things are wrong. You'd still have had hcg in your body just your body wasn't reacting to it in the same way, which is normal and not a bad omen of any sort.
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November 4th, 2011, 03:24 PM #4
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So sorry to hear that news
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November 4th, 2011, 03:49 PM #5
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Oh, Demeter, I am so so sorry. I had the same thing happen in April/May and also had no symptoms, which made me feel like maybe it was a boy also. If you need to chat or vent, please pm me. I can say that I had 2 nights of painful labor with it. I was almost 10 weeks when I expelled it all, and was 8wks exactly at my appt. I can tell you that I wished I had some painkillers for those nights, so if you are ok with taking some meds, I would go ahead and call in for some. I am SO sorry, it is just heartbreaking. I still get a tad upset about it. Give yourself some time to grieve and lay low and take good care of yourself and love on your girls. XXOO
(2002) (2005) from 1st marriage. TTC since Aug 2010- Dx: low sperm count and 1% normal sperm. We are giving up and moving on with a baby-free life.
UPDATE: surprise bfp in Feb 2013! It's a BOY!
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November 4th, 2011, 03:57 PM #6
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Oh I am so sorry
Hope to see you around the boy threads again xxx
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November 4th, 2011, 06:07 PM #7
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The exact same thing happened to me the 1st time i fell pregnant. I know how devestating that news is, i cried and cried. I also wanted to let nature take its course and naturally miscarried. The doctor told me there was nothing i could have done and it was most likely a genetic abnormality
Definatly take something for the pain, im so sorry that this happened to you.
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November 4th, 2011, 11:08 PM #8
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I'm so sorry .
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November 4th, 2011, 11:33 PM #9
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I'm so sorry for your loss. RIP angel baby.
Is there anyway you can find out if it's a boy or girl? Do you want to know?
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November 5th, 2011, 06:23 AM #10
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I am so sorry to hear that. Thinking of you. x
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