Timing

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We did our first attempt day before O after a 7 day abstain, and I was feeling great, but then one thing led to another and we dtd a few hours post O (which I'm fairly certain I can pinpoint, so maybe like 36 hours post first attempt). Just worried it ruined everything.

[atomic sagebrush]

If there was anything left after the original attempt it would already have fertilized the egg. If there wasn't, the second shot ~might~ have had a chance but if you really did have that timing, it would likely have missed the egg entirely as eggs die off a lot faster than people realize.

[foursquare]

Thank you Atomic. You always make me feel better. And I know its facts and you're not just blowing smoke, so I truly appreciate all your guidance and support. THANK YOU! I've of course been googling sperm capacitation and how long that takes to occur and if any sperm from O-1 would have had a leg up.... but I just need to stop and breathe and let it be! I know the stressing is doing me zero favors.

[atomic sagebrush]

The sperm from O-1 would have had a huge leg up. The other ones would have been at such a massive disadvantage I really doubt it's even possible.