Cont. From ttc Jan :)

[Nell_]

Oh ruu my heart dropped when i read this but so happy one baby is safe. Sending big hugs to you my friend had head aches and high bp had a girl how are you feeling ? xxxx

[TA Sait]

Oh God! I'm so sorry ruu... I literally couldn't react when I read this.. Happy that one of your baby is safe and that ll be a cute ltl baby girl (hopefully).. Please don't get disheartened ruu, everything happens for good.. Lots of love and tons of hugs to you dear... Healthy pregnancy ahead dear!

[TA Sait]

I will send the pictures to you soon, had slightly high blood pressure and a headache,oooh I think am continuing to be team green, will find out when the baby is out,I wouldn't want to be depressed again lol

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Hopefully you are keeping well now ruu??

[Sillyginger]

Oh Ruu, I’m so sorry to hear that one of the babies is not there anymore. I am happy to hear that the other is safe and sound though. How are you feeling? I bet this is your girl!

[ruupau]

Seriously I got hurt and didn't believe it @ first, so I paid for a second scan with different sono, and do you know what the sono told me"? She said I don't think you even had twins, there is nothing called vanishing twin syndrome,she.said you should have come to us meaning them as they are the true sonos who went to school to radiographers not my obs because he isn't a sono he might have seen something different that wasn't a twin, at all, she alsp insisted on without bleeding or spotting it can't be .but I have read that vanishing can occur with or without bleeding or spotting. I told myself I shouldn't have gone there now am tormented by this sonogra

Thinking its another boy, because of blood pressure and increase in body weight. All my boys pregos I gained weight even in first trimester upto delivery. And now I gained 5kgs in 12weeks. Now am 69kgs and what about upto 3rd trimester arghh. With my boys I never had bp earlier only when the preg was due.
I hope and pray I will be ok and tge baby

Thanks girls for the support, I kinda needed it soon after I wish if you were in real life over here with me I could have cried over your shoulders cos here DH is far and mom is far and didn't have any support.

Nell and TA hurry up get your bfps soon

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[ruupau]

Thats the baby's pic, its not very clear

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[Nell_]

So upsetting ruu wish we were there to give you a big hug and make you cups of tea and have a proper chat! We all saw the scan im no expert but looked like twins to us including atomic i think?
Beautiful baby ruu but not a clear pic 💕💕

[TA Sait]

Feeling so upset ruu. Wish we were there to comfort you and spend some quality time with you.. If not there we are definitely here for each other. Really happy that one of your baby is healthy and we pray it is always healthy.

Hope you are doing better now ruu. Lots of love..
And yeah cute baby cozy in there!

[Sillyginger]

Oh Ruu, I wish we were all close too. You wouldn’t have had to be alone at all. And I agree with Nell. It definitely looked like twins. I’m so sorry Ruu.
I do want to reassure you about the gender though. I gained 40 lbs (18+ kg, I think) with both of my girls! And I gained almost 1/3 of that in the first trimester! Those girls are stinkers and will make their mommas gain weight too!!

[Nell_]

How are you feeling ruu? How did your dh react? xx