The TROUBLE with timing!

[atomic sagebrush]

Thank you! Even dumber question... should I be keeping this frequency up during the TWW as well? Or is it really only important to start at the beginning of the cycle with AF?

We have some evidence that shows both that regular unprotected sex helps boost fertility, and also may sway blue. Even in 2WW if you can.

[Lissastick]

So, I have a question...
I know it's been said that no one thing can sway, but, let's just say that my diet is boy friendly, would this frequency here sway boy? Ovulated on the 7th, positive OPK on the 6th, but husband did not ejaculate during sex on the last day that's marked on my calendar there...
I actually want to sway girl but have NO idea what I am doing! Lol!

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[familymatters]

It probably would have been best not to have DTD on Wednesday, but if you did in fact O on the 7th then I'd say you did do girl timing as you only had one attempt close to O.

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[Throwaway_panther]

So, I have a question...
I know it's been said that no one thing can sway, but, let's just say that my diet is boy friendly, would this frequency here sway boy? Ovulated on the 7th, positive OPK on the 6th, but husband did not ejaculate during sex on the last day that's marked on my calendar there...
I actually want to sway girl but have NO idea what I am doing! Lol!

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That's considered boy frequency, BUT is the frequency I had when conceiving my daughter. However, I had a VERY girl-friendly lifestyle, so clearly that trumped attempts!

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[Lissastick]

Yeah, my lifestyle is not girl friendly, I think. Haven't read all the details, but I think I've been doing the WRONG things, thinking I was swaying girl, and was really swaying boy (calcium supps). Sigh. Oh well! One of my friends said she thinks I may be meant to be a boy mom. I think that might be true...
We shall see! I might not even get pregnant this cycle anyway, though. That would be crazy if it happened the very first try. Even my son took two cycles!

[atomic sagebrush]

You always have a chance of a girl!! Good luck and pink dust - if BFN, please let me know how I can help!

The calcium, heck, a lot of people swear by that. It didn't work for me and that's partly why a lot of us are here, is because that old-school stuff didn't work for us. But that doesn't mean it's a surefire thing that it won't work for you. Moving forward I think we can work together here in the forums to get it ironed out, it's actually much easier to sway than it seems like at first blush.

[Lissastick]

You always have a chance of a girl!! Good luck and pink dust - if BFN, please let me know how I can help!

The calcium, heck, a lot of people swear by that. It didn't work for me and that's partly why a lot of us are here, is because that old-school stuff didn't work for us. But that doesn't mean it's a surefire thing that it won't work for you. Moving forward I think we can work together here in the forums to get it ironed out, it's actually much easier to sway than it seems like at first blush.

That is so good to hear! I have a very strong feeling that we didn't make a baby this cycle, so, I am going to need to follow the girl diet, right? I feel like that is going to be HARD! haha
And I have to be following it for a long time? I was kind of hoping to conceive before September because I don't want to be in my 3rd trimester in the summer like I was with my son! LOL! I was really hoping for a February or March baby, but, if I can have a real shot at swaying for pink, I feel like I need to try!

Can someone direct me to the girl friendly lifestyle info?

[atomic sagebrush]

It's really not as hard as all that. I had to cram a lot of largely irrelevant info into the diet because otherwise people would have driven me nutty with questions on this or that, but at the core it's very simple:

1500-1800 cals
40-50 g protein (vegetable proteins are best)
30-60 g fat (vegetable fats are best)

Low carb veg are FREE and unlimted, don't count them for anything (not even cals). Higher carb veg and fruit, count only cals but not protein or fat.
Be sure you're getting at minimum 2500 mg potassium a day for safety and health.

Some people want to try to limit sodium to 700-1000 mg but it's really very difficult and most of us have totally given up on that (and our results have only improved since we did!)

Coffee, alcohol, fiber all seem to sway pink.
Everyone take 1200-1600 mcg folic acid or folate

Cheating now and then is not only allowed but mandatory.

That's it! You don't HAVE to follow any food restrictions or "eat this, not that" kind of thing, just stick in the limits eating foods you like that are available to you. We do get best results with 12 weeks + on diet but anything after 6 weeks is still getting good results. The full LE Diet is here http://genderdreaming.com/forum/tryi...l-version.html but it's a lot more involved, really it's just what I wrote above.

In my signature below there is a link to our index which has probably more than you ever wanted to know in alphabetical order by topic.

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