frequency of BD for pink and blue

**atomic sagebrush** · September 24th, 2018, 01:17 PM

I want you doing every other day when the fertile window is not open (so the first option is better to me than the second).

While it is possible to develop secondary infertility, I really do think this is a Shettles thing and we will be hearing good news from you very soon. If we go another 2-3 months with BFN even with more intercourse then we may want to see a doc at that time to see what's going on.

**Joyjoy88** · September 26th, 2018, 10:12 PM

Originally Posted by atomic sagebrush

I want you doing every other day when the fertile window is not open (so the first option is better to me than the second).

While it is possible to develop secondary infertility, I really do think this is a Shettles thing and we will be hearing good news from you very soon. If we go another 2-3 months with BFN even with more intercourse then we may want to see a doc at that time to see what's going on.

Thank you for the encouragement. It really made me happy.

AF is expected on Monday. I must not give up and have more faith.. And of course use the methods you have taught me ! Will go with CD7,9, 11,12,13! Operation flood the egg will begin soon! hahaha

**atomic sagebrush** · September 27th, 2018, 12:58 PM

You got this!

**violagirl87** · October 5th, 2018, 07:14 AM

Hi atomic!

I am new to this site and would really like to sway blue if possible. Some background on me, I am 31 years old and have 2 daughters aged 3 and 20 months. My husband is 34. I would like to possibly try to get pregnant with our final child before the year ends, but I know that’s a big ask. My first two daughters were conceived in the first months ttc so I never really paid much attention to how fertility works exactly. I am really really hoping for a boy this time. Last cycle I tried shettles as I had not come across your site yet and didn’t end up concieving, as I only did one attempt on O day. This cycle weBD on 0-4, 0-2, 0-1, 0 day. I’m basing my O purely off CM as I haven’t yet really gotten around to temping or OPKs or anything ( will have to try if we don’t conceive this month).i have also been doing your diet recommendations that are on this website. My question is do you think we DTD on the correct days to help sway blue?

Thanks for all your help

Love your work and your website

**atomic sagebrush** · October 5th, 2018, 11:58 AM

Hi and welcome Viola!

Yes I think that was a fab attempt for a boy! Very much how I got my boys!!! I would have you guys pick it up with every other day for a few days to ensure youre covered in case ovulation happens a little later than you think.

**violagirl87** · October 5th, 2018, 06:13 PM

Thanks atomic ! Fingers crossed we end up getting a BFP this month. The reason we didn’t DTD after O was that my daughters both had the flu and then I caught it too.

Does being sick hurt chances of a successful conception?
Also I took some cough syrup to up my EWCM , should I stop that now? And start it up again if we go into another cycle ?

Also I know you’ve written conceiving too closely doesn’t help with blue sways , do you think there is enough gap now? My dd1 was 10 months when we conceived dd2, now both are 3 and 20 months.

Thanks ! Sorry for all the questions

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**atomic sagebrush** · October 6th, 2018, 01:21 PM

Being sick may cut chances a little but we've had plenty of people get pregnant in months they'd been ill.

Yes I would stop the cough syrup now, it's not harmful but just to save money.

20 months is more than enough time! That's fine!

**violagirl87** · October 24th, 2018, 06:19 PM

Hi atomic!

I’m now on my third month TTC and I’m using the clear blue digital opk (already opened the box after I read the strips are just as good if not better). I’m continuing my HE diet attempt ( breakfast cereal everyday when I normally don’t have anything) and eating a lot more read meat, having nuts and cheese as snacks and lots of full cream milk. I’ve gained almost 3 kg [emoji58][emoji58][emoji58] . I’m taking elevit and getting DH to take menevit and will attempt 3-4 BD in my fertile window. I’m so wanting to pregnant already, a boy would be perfect but even another girl baby would just completely fill my heart and home.... seems everyone from Meghan Markle to Amy Schumer to everyone is pregnant [emoji50]

Would you recommend anything else to do in my boy sway? I will be buying some robitussin as well for more ewcm.

Between part time work and my two DDs I have no energy left for much workouts....

Any help or advice would be great !

Thanks [emoji3531]

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**atomic sagebrush** · October 25th, 2018, 02:33 PM

What I'd do now is cut back on any empty cals such as bread/baked goods, sugary treats, even fruit juice. Bananas if you're eating lots of them Focus on getting the most bang for your buck - the most nutrients for the fewest calories.

What is hubby doing for release when not in the fertile window?

**violagirl87** · October 25th, 2018, 05:48 PM

I normally don’t have juice or bread or baked goods but I eat a lot of rice for lunch and dinner. Does that mean a chicken sandwich for lunch isn’t good for HE diet? I’ll have a banana a day with my cereal as well.
I normally have homemade curry with rice for dinner

DH releases with me every 2-3 days outside the fertile window ...

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