Can anyone help

[ttcgirl39]

Will do we can help each other along this crazy journey
What country are you in

[Pink1980]

Ireland

[ttcgirl39]

Ireland

Ha ha me too lol.
We can keep each other same. Hopefully we might manage to get conceive this month too.

[atomic sagebrush]

No one can look at the stuff you did and tell you why you got a certain gender - there are always just too many unknowns.

Just do what has worked for most people most of the time - LE Diet longer than 12 weeks, fiber, coffee, and alcohol, cardio exercise (even just walking) 60 minutes a day 4 or more days a week, one attempt, and Clomid or Femara if you can get them. For your hsuband, jogging or biking, and smoking may help. Olive leaf extract and soy milk may also help but less proven than the other things.

[atomic sagebrush]

Yeah I'm overweight and always trying to lose weight and gaining again but always before conceiving I'm never on a diet after dd1 before I had the miscarriage I had lost 50kg but had gained a lot back after the miscarriage and definitely wasn't dieting before I conceived dd2 or I wasn't on birth control either.

I wondering did I get my dd1 from coming off birth control but I hadn't been on birth control then before dd2.

I'm beginning to get really down about it all. We are hoping to try this month but I'm not hopeful it will work and dh says we shouldn't try if I'm going to be upset about another ds.

It never, ever comes down to one thing. It is dozens if not hundreds of things and trying to go over and over your life looking for a magic bullet simply causes the kind of "control freak" attitude that can undermine your pink sway.

Just do what has worked for most people most of the time. We'll never know why you had the genders you had.

[atomic sagebrush]

Atomic - do you think the birth control pills helped me conceive my dd1. Is that the missing link why all the other pregnancies were boys apart from my dd 2 but I lost that pregancy and was not on birth control pills before that pregnancy.

It may have helped but it does not ever come down to one thing.

Most of us on this site (myself included, after 4 boys in a row!) got our girls without birth control. And of course all the girls ever conceived, most of them were without birth control. So it just cannot be true that birth control is a necessity for anyone trying to conceive a girl. Just can't be true since they weren't even invented till 1960!

[ttcgirl39]

Atomtic what way do you take the fibre Is it from a health shop or just in foods

[atomic sagebrush]

Atomtic what way do you take the fibre Is it from a health shop or just in foods

Any fiber you can easiy get (like Metamucil or whatever is available for you in your nearby shops) just one dose about 1/2 hour before any meal containing fat. If your meal doesn't have fat, you don't need the fiber.