swayers over 35 buddy group

[CapricornAquarius]

Flava yes i know how you feel, i swayed for 5mths, working out my O, diet, ions, hoping my lunar date would match up with my O, blah, blah, it is all very annoying, but hopefully its all worth it in the end, so hang in there.

[Flava]

I use to O on CD14 then it went to 17 and now looks like 18 .Don't know why Im not taking anything what can delay O.
Only good thing about it the moon will be in Leo tomorrow because i though I will O in frickin' cancer again! lol Of course i was hoping to O 2-3 days ago when the moon was in gemini and closer to full moon ,but then it went to cancer and i was sad of course but now is like ok at least is so late im moving over to Leo boy sign again.And it's waning moon so also sways blue .Of course maybe all this crap don't matter...
And don't worry about O sways blue either I only have girls hehe. Last try was on IG damn MSU for a boy and still got a girl.Did Shettles before that for a boy.
So I really don't know WTH Im doing here again...

[lemon2012]

My older boy is dinosaur mad, actually dinosaurs are kind of interesting? I always wanted a cabbage patch kid when I was a little girl but never got one. So I have always said that I would buy one if I had a little girl. Ha ha maybe I really want a girl so I can finally have a cabbage patch kid! I tried mostly 2, 3 day cut offs with DS2 and I just couldn't get preggy. We tried for 10 months and hubby was so over it. So we dtd on a positive opk test and got pregnant that month. I was taking vitex everyday, probably not for all this time though. Atomic said its best to take 2 weeks on and 2 weeks off otherwise it may stop you getting pregnant. It was 1 pill a day but I will have a look at the bottle to see what strength this was. I do wonder though if I can only get preggy right on ovulation. Would this mean I can only conceive boys??

Hey Jude....I have two cabbage kids...I kept them from my childhood! I think I will get them out again so they can play with them...lol They will play with dolls but my oldest tells me he doesn't have any to play with...lol. Right now he loves star wars!
Did you only dtd on pos opk day? Did you abstain or frequent? was this for DS 2?
I wonder if it is DH and motility...geez, I have no idea what I am talking about....perhaps it just happened that way.
I am convinced I will only have boys...I think I have too much testosterone.
Did the vitex change your cycle? I started it yesterday....cd 5 and the pills are in 80 mg. I took two yesterday and two this am....I was going to take 2 tonight...the package says 1-3 a day.

[lemon2012]

I use to O on CD14 then it went to 17 and now looks like 18 .Don't know why Im not taking anything what can delay O.
Only good thing about it the moon will be in Leo tomorrow because i though I will O in frickin' cancer again! lol Of course i was hoping to O 2-3 days ago when the moon was in gemini and closer to full moon ,but then it went to cancer and i was sad of course but now is like ok at least is so late im moving over to Leo boy sign again.And it's waning moon so also sways blue .Of course maybe all this crap don't matter...
And don't worry about O sways blue either I only have girls hehe. Last try was on IG damn MSU for a boy and still got a girl.Did Shettles before that for a boy.
So I really don't know WTH Im doing here again...

What do you mean o sways blue...the big o?
What the heck is MSU? I never figured that out...is that what the guru "tamara" did? What happened to IG..although, I don't miss it...addicted!
You did shettles for a boy and got a girl....what EXACTLY did you do? lol

I am not sure why your o date is moving,...has it done that before? Are you waiting to dtd? Shettles timing? abstaining? frequent?
One DS was every other day pretty much and stopped morning of o....DS2 was a one time one attempt oops when DS 1 was not even one!!! It was 1.5 days ahead I think...I remember feeling o pain and I was worried I would not be able to have more kids. LOL, I did!
Now, I am wondering the same thing...can I have more?

Have you gone to the docs flava to check levels etc?

The moon is new next week and in Capri and Scor for girl for me....even as I write that.,..I am thinking boy if any for me
This whole TTC gender sucks!
Hopefully you are bding tonight!!!

[lemon2012]

Flava yes i know how you feel, i swayed for 5mths, working out my O, diet, ions, hoping my lunar date would match up with my O, blah, blah, it is all very annoying, but hopefully its all worth it in the end, so hang in there.

Oh dear, I think I forgot you were pg today!
How do you feel? Are you in the heat of Aust?
When do you find out the gender?

[Flava]

lemon-They say big O and dtd on O day bot sways blue. But i had big O with all my girls so I don't think so. I will not have one this time.
I don't know what happened to IG and don't care no1 was nice to me after I find out DD4 is a girl. And yes MSU is what IG guru did and me to only it did not worked. It's a swim up what you do at home.

We are trying to do 3 days abstaining and dtd again next night if temps are not up on the morning.

[Mochagirl]

Hey ladies - can I join in? I'm 37 and after a m/c at 11 weeks I think am ready to start thinking about trying again. I swayed pretty hard last time, and as a result it took me a long time to get pregnant. It wasn't until I dropped rephresh and got very relaxed with frequent release that we managed to conceive. I'm not going to start out so hard and heavy this time, partly because I know that TTC after a m/c sways pink already, and partly because I don't want to have to spend 4 months trying to get pregnant again (and nearly 6 months on the LE diet!).

I'm probably going to wait until my first period then start trying that next cycle if I O (December or January, I hope). We're going to drop frequent release, but I might use a fingertip of rephresh now and then. I'm going to do a modified LE diet - vegetarian, low protein, low calorie - but I'm going to allow myself cheats now and then and hopefully not lose quite as much weight (I lost 20 lbs on the diet last time, and have now gained back 13 of those pounds). I'll be taking Vitex, and once the bleeding stops, Baby Aspirin. I'll also probably take Zyrtec close to O again. Here's hoping this time I have a pink, sticky bean!

[lemon2012]

lemon-They say big O and dtd on O day bot sways blue. But i had big O with all my girls so I don't think so. I will not have one this time.
I don't know what happened to IG and don't care no1 was nice to me after I find out DD4 is a girl. And yes MSU is what IG guru did and me to only it did not worked. It's a swim up what you do at home.

We are trying to do 3 days abstaining and dtd again next night if temps are not up on the morning.

I am clearly always confused....I think I have to give up and try for a baby. I feel like I have wasted a year of my life with no guarantees.
I am sorry if DD4 was hard and that IG was not helpful. I feel like they were swaying me to do o plus 12. It does not feel right at my age and I wish I had never heard of TBM..it makes me tempted but not in my comfort zone.
I just wish I could make it happen the way I want..I am a perfectionist.
Hot there?
Your plan is night before o and morning of o after or day of o?
Are you close to oing yet?
I think 4 girls would be hard...maybe as much as 2 boys...lol! Kids are HARD! hahahaha

[lemon2012]

Hey there...Of course...join in!
Thank you! I am 37 as well and fell really old!
I am also in Canada!!!
Sorry to hear about your mc. Do you think it was age or some other factor? I have to say we have basically tried a cut off for a year and nothing. For 2 months we dtd right before only shallow and lime or douche...not happening. So, basically I am the worst swayer in the whole world. I just really wanted to have a daughter and now I am risking having another child at all. That frightens me.
I just started vitex. Did you take it before? Do you know if o will be late or early?
I guess you don't know what gender you were carrying which probably does not help mentally. I am sure you are anxious and more than ready! Hopefully things get back on track soon. Maybe just drop things this time round? Or, is that easier said than done...mc do sway pink! Bittersweet I guess.

I really need help...I o next week..sometime.
I have done some form of some diets but I have given up...I had red meat, ate some salt, bought a coffee,...I have been worried what I eat for 1 year. It is too much and I think the stress is getting to me.
I have been taking the supplements, calc, mag, cranberry and now vitex.
My lunar cycle is next week, the 24th, girl...but I think that is my o date. Not necessarily a girl!
My jonas date is the 28th...4 days after o..how is that possible?

I just need to decide...how many times, what days, etc.

[Mochagirl]

Personally, I wouldn't worry too much about timing, lemon - but that's just me. If I were you, I'd try frequent release from now until O-day, then do one attempt on that day..or maybe one the day before and one the day of O. Try your best on the diet until you O, but don't beat yourself up if you cheat. I'm going to be a lot more relaxed with the diet this time around. I think when I went into it last time I assumed I'd only have to do it for 6 weeks, but it was too hard to maintain it for nearly 6 months when I didn't get pregnant as quickly as I thought I would.

I did take Vitex last time too. It made my O day move around - one month it would be 2 days early, the next month 2 days late. Since this will be my first cycle after m/c I won't really know when to expect it.

As for the m/c - who knows what caused it? I comfort myself by knowing that miscarriages are actually quite common, and most women go on to have a successful pregnancy afterwards. The fetus likely died long ago and is just being rejected by my body now. I'm actually happy I don't know the gender. It would be hard if I knew this one was a girl, then ended up conceiving a boy next time.