My failed boy sway

[shiroshiro]

I love and adore our baby and have since knowing I was pregnant, but there was still a part of me that wished I was successful in my sway. I wanted to share the details so you all had some stats.

- I was eating a HE diet since early 2019 when I was TTC with my first. It ended in a loss (was a girl as well).
- I waited 3-4 months before trying again, and during that time i RETAINED my pregnancy weight (up 6kg since 2017!) That's a lot for me, since I started off being slightly underweight.
- I switched from being vegetarian to full meat-eater when TTC with my first.
- I ate meat twice a day at least, even if I didn't want to eat. I was never hungry during the day.
- 1 coffee a day, full cream milk (switched from non-dairy)
- Light cardio everyday (30-40 mins) and twice a week did weights.

FREQUENCY
- Did Sperm Meet Egg timing, which was done perfectly because afterwards when we confirmed conception date, I checked the timing and it was as boy-friendly as possible.

[Sora]

I love and adore our baby and have since knowing I was pregnant, but there was still a part of me that wished I was successful in my sway. I wanted to share the details so you all had some stats.

- I was eating a HE diet since early 2019 when I was TTC with my first. It ended in a loss (was a girl as well).
- I waited 3-4 months before trying again, and during that time i RETAINED my pregnancy weight (up 6kg since 2017!) That's a lot for me, since I started off being slightly underweight.
- I switched from being vegetarian to full meat-eater when TTC with my first.
- I ate meat twice a day at least, even if I didn't want to eat. I was never hungry during the day.
- 1 coffee a day, full cream milk (switched from non-dairy)
- Light cardio everyday (30-40 mins) and twice a week did weights.

FREQUENCY
- Did Sperm Meet Egg timing, which was done perfectly because afterwards when we confirmed conception date, I checked the timing and it was as boy-friendly as possible.

Were you taking any supp ? Vitamins ? What about DH ? What are his diet, habits, is he into sports ?

[atomic sagebrush]

Shiro, I"m so sorry it didn't go the way we hoped. you had a great sway, and hugest congrats on your new baby!

[Throwaway_panther]

I'm sorry, I've joined this club too and it sucks the odds weren't in our favor.

[shiroshiro]

Were you taking any supp ? Vitamins ? What about DH ? What are his diet, habits, is he into sports ?

Yes I was taking 2x my prenatals, 1500mg folic acid, B12, Iron.

Husband ate meat, cardio everyday, very lean and muscular. Non-desk job but not hazardous.

We are both zero alcohol and zero smoking.

[shiroshiro]

Thanks Atomic. Perhaps a baby girl will help me heal from our first loss too.

Do you have a link why your site attracts more girl swayers?

[shiroshiro]

Would love to hear more about your life with two DD! Might be me one day

[LMSM]

Congrats on a healthy baby’s! Sorry you didn’t get your boy this time..I’ve been there three times, it’s tough. It gets better with time

[MiaMelb]

My thoughts are with you Shiro, sorry this was not your desired boy. Be kind to yourself while you are adjusting to the news, you will get to a good place.

[shiroshiro]

I'd really love to hear more amazing stories about mums and their daughters! It's the only thing that's making me feel better.