5wk 6d no Fetal Pole or HB any help!

[Alliwantisblue]

Hi All,

We just got blood draw for NIPT on today, should get results withing 7-10 days. Honestly I feel another girl this has been a perfect pregnancy symptom wise no MS no Nausea no pain I don't even feel preggo so different than with DD but I feel like all the scares of possibly having something wrong is trying to make me appreciate having a healthy baby; A girl! My mind is working overtime. Just today we could not get the heartbeat on the doppler and I got so scared then went to the Ultrasound room and everything was fine. I said to DH God is trying to make me appreciate this child by scaring me with the thought of it not happening and that is why its going to be a girl. I know early on it was pretty fast heartbeat was 168 at 8weeks then the next week it was in the 150s so everyone that I said that to is saying oh its a girl making me feel worse about not wanting a girl. I feel like a horrible person that I am so consumed with gender although I want a healthy baby I really want a boy!

[atomic sagebrush]

The heartrate is completely debunked. The ONLY thing that changes the baby's heart rate is the gestation and then how nervous YOU, the mama is! A couple of my boys always had high heartrates and then my girl was the lowest of all five.

Good luck and blue dust headed your way.

[Alliwantisblue]

@ Atomic, Blue2, so many others thank you so much for all your support and words of encouragement although I said I would not be finding out the gender the nosiness in my spirit would not allow it. I peeked and although I don't understand the chromosome results, it definitely said that I am expecting a I am overjoyed. I cried i screamed and I thanked God but I have to thank so many of you for all your input in this process! I didn't think it was possible that DH and I could have a son and hopefully all goes the way it has been and he is born healthy! Thank you so much

[Nell_]

Oh wow congratulations on your healthy baby boy!! ❤

[atomic sagebrush]

AAAAAAA hugest congrats!!! I am so happy for you!!!!

[Pbn3]

Huge congratulations!!! [emoji322][emoji322][emoji322]

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[LMSM]

Massive congrats! I can’t believe the rate of successful blue sways these last months so good to see

[atomic sagebrush]

Massive congrats! I can’t believe the rate of successful blue sways these last months so good to see

This is what we were getting the first several years of the site - I truly believe we just had a run of bad luck for a couple years.

[LMSM]

Hopefully the good results will continue into 2020 when we ttc hehe FX!