swayers over 35 buddy group

**Flava** · November 17th, 2011, 10:52 AM

indigo- welcome here! Hope you get that bfp soon!

**Mochagirl** · November 17th, 2011, 11:56 AM

Indigo - nice to see you hear!

How long did you wait after your m/c before trying to conceive again? I'm planning to wait until my first period, but after some calculations realised that might bring me to a Christmas/Boxing Day O-date!! That would be veeery tricky since we'll be staying in my in-laws' packed house. I'm tempted to try as soon as I ovulate instead, but I'm so scared that will up my chances of another m/c.

**HopeandDreamG** · November 17th, 2011, 01:37 PM

Hi IndigoViolet!
Mocha~ I had my loss July. Got AF back August.... had it Sept, Oct., and right now- this is the cycle I am trying. Had I known about swaying and had a plan I might have TTC first cycle in August, bc next cycle sways pink (and twins I've read). I don't know though, on second thought I would not have been on supps or dieting while preggo so how does that work? I also listened to my doc who told me to give my body a break. I was going TTC October till I read heavy Boy month. So long story short I was going to wait 2 cycles decided on 3.

**amari** · November 17th, 2011, 04:11 PM

Hi, ladies, I tried to introduce myself the other day but was in a hurry. I an new here, don't even know how to post a pic or anything! I have a 3 and 1/2 year old boy and 2 year old boy and now would really love a little girl. Just got my husband to agree to try! I am not getting my period or ovulating so have to start provera and clomid for the first time. I am excited to have found this website!

**sweetsister** · November 17th, 2011, 05:13 PM

Well as i thought AF arrived today but 2 days early ?Must be this starvation girl diet doing its wonderful magic to my body!!So that means i am now on a 26-27 day cycle and normally i am 32days!At least it makes trying time closer and the 2ww shorter.Im kind of glad im not as over the weekend my 17 month old fell on a chair and split his eyebrow open and i had to go to emergency and they took an xray and i had to be with him through it ,i knew i wasnt anyways but didnt think,so if i was i would be worried the whole time!Sooo here we go again i will have to cut some things and add some things to my sway and if i dont conceive im taking a break for december and enjoying xmas!Im scared to try the le or french diet though instead of Ig diet it is stuck in my head !Anyone strongly think i should reconsider and switch?Im also going to try dtd every day for the fertile week instead of abstain and only twice as last i did,i hope that works....Sigh i hope this time around takes ,i am withering away on this diet i cought a glimpse of myself in a store window today and i look so witchy old haggardey hahaha thought it was MY Mom!!!

So Sorry to hear of all the losses on here xxxx

**HopeandDreamG** · November 17th, 2011, 06:25 PM

Originally Posted by amari

Hi, ladies, I tried to introduce myself the other day but was in a hurry. I an new here, don't even know how to post a pic or anything! I have a 3 and 1/2 year old boy and 2 year old boy and now would really love a little girl. Just got my husband to agree to try! I am not getting my period or ovulating so have to start provera and clomid for the first time. I am excited to have found this website!

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**lemon2012** · November 17th, 2011, 07:51 PM

Originally Posted by Kitten

Thanks everyone for the warm welcome.

I am so sorry for everyone's loss. No one should ever have to go through that kind of pain.

Zivic - yes we were on the Mature Mom's forum together on IG.

HopeandDream - I am the same from PL. Sad to see it go, but glad to hear that this forum is so great!

I'll post a ticker soon. I'm on CD7 and should O between CD12 and 16. Usually CD13 or 14 though. Little trepedacious as this is the same cycle that I conceived our angel on and I even might end up Oing on the same day.

KITTEN!!!
Same cd and same province!
What is your bd plan??
I have to decide and I have to relax!!!!
Yeah, we are close...for some reason, that makes me feel so comfortable!
Ok, let's chat about this!!!!

**lemon2012** · November 17th, 2011, 07:56 PM

I might be wrong but the IG diet seemed to be quite low in a lot of things...except calcium right?
I think considering it is 2 weeks until o, you can keep trying. Take a diet break during the 2 WW maybe? And, then go from there!
Withering away will not get you pregnant right? Forget how old you are but do you wonder if maybe we are being persumptious assuming we will get pregnant?
I assume DS is okay! Poor little guy!

**lemon2012** · November 17th, 2011, 07:58 PM

Originally Posted by amari

Hi, ladies, I tried to introduce myself the other day but was in a hurry. I an new here, don't even know how to post a pic or anything! I have a 3 and 1/2 year old boy and 2 year old boy and now would really love a little girl. Just got my husband to agree to try! I am not getting my period or ovulating so have to start provera and clomid for the first time. I am excited to have found this website!

WELCOME AMARI...I don't know much myself!
But, I do know clomid can make your environment more acidic! It sways girl!
I took clomid for DS 1 (BOY) but I also had PCOS (high testosterone) and I think I was pregnant the first month on clomid and it did not take (for some reason I am convinced that was a girl).
Why are you not ovulating? age? other health reason?

**lemon2012** · November 17th, 2011, 08:04 PM

Okay, swayers over 35...I will try and figure out my sway...here goes and let me know what you think!

Today is cd 7. I am due to o on cd 13 to 15. Last month was 14, the month before 13 and usually 15!

I am 6-8 days away from o.
What do I do?
DH released on the weekend when I was cd 3...gee, thanks..lol!

Here are my options:

1) DTD every other day or so, maybe cd 7, 8, 10, 12

2) Save the deed for cd 10 and 11 (maybe 3 or 2 days before)

3) Dtd once....as close to o without being too close!

4) frequent bding...want to get pregnant!

OK, this was not detailed enough, but I do not want to expand unless I know someone thinks they can help me out!

I used rephresh yesterday.
calcium, mag, cranberry, vitex for a few days

I am eating less.
I feel old and tired.....same as sweetsister I think

I want a third but I am desperate and I long for a girl. This is torture!

DS was clomid, every other day to morning of o.
DS 2 was a one time attempt (oops) 1.5 days ahead of o.

Please help me with timing and frequency...I feel so indecisive and that whatever decision I make will make or break my little girl.
It is too much pressure!
Does anyone feel the same way? Any ideas on how to get over it?

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