Oh no!!! An unplanned pull-out baby [emoji51]

[catie13218]

Hi! I got pregnant with my first child (a boy) in 2012. We were first told by the doctor that he was girl at our ultrasound but at a later ultrasound we found out he was actually a boy. I cried and cried! I honestly had no idea that I would be SO affected by GD up until that point. So in 2016 I decided to purchase a personalized plan here when we were planning to get pregnant with my second child. I followed the plan as best as I could and I was thrilled when it worked the first try and we got our girl!! I felt beyond happy and blessed. (And always will be thankful for this site!) Fast forward to 2017 I had recently stopped breastfeeding my daughter and got pregnant by surprise with a pull-out baby. It turned out to be a boy. Even though I said I wasn't going to be upset about the gender since I already had a girl I still cried when I found out. (Please don't get me wrong I absolutely love my boys I don't even know why I react like that). Well....turns out I just got a very faint positive test after the past five days of bad cramping. Arghhh!! The night of conception I had a few drinks and was feeling loose lol I haven't really been up for sex since my 3rd was born in Oct as the hormones from breastfeeding caused me to have a really low libido so I was feeling bad for my hubby and wanted to do something for him. I asked him if he could grab a condom but he kinda laughed it off and next thing you know.......(Huge sigh). He pulled out and didn't think there was any error. So...here we are. I am panicking about this baby being another boy. I have only had one period since I stopped nursing April 1 so I really have no idea when I ovulated. I had sex 1 time this whole month with a pull-out release. Sex was from behind with me laying flat on my stomach. (Sorry tmi) Since stopping breastfeeding April 1, I have been on a really strict diet. Intermittent fasting (no breakfast) and eating around 800-1000 calories a day. I lost 29 lbs in the past two months (trying to loose the baby/ nursing weight). I took no supplements. I drank diet Coke (because ever since my last sway I changed to diet coke from diet Pepsi and it stuck lol) Dh did nothing in regards to swaying. I only drank a few alcoholic drinks here or there but infrequently as I was dieting. Ate mostly chicken. I have the classic boy personality. Ughhh what do you think? How does this look for maybe getting a girl? Thanks for your help and support!!

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[Bobster]

Wow I think you have a great chance for a girl. Sounds like you’re made the LE more of a lifestyle choice and the fact you weren’t wanting or planning it probably went in your favour as I think sometimes the stress and obsessing can sometimes sway blue. Did you have one attempt?

I also had an oops pregnancy without a sway and I was less pink friendly than you and amazingly I’m having a girl after 2 boys so anything can happen. When I think back I was probably a bit more pink friendly in my lifestyle than I was with my boys as I drunk wine regularly, was focused on a course so had stress, naturally had eaten less meat since reading about swaying but this is now something I naturally prefer and I always skip breakfast and drink tonnes of coffee. I also only had one attempt which was different. I’m convinced that not focusing too hard on swaying helped so maybe that will work in your favour too. Good luck!!!

[catie13218]

Thanks so much!! You gave me some hope! Enjoy your baby girl it really is the best being a girl mom I absolutely love it. Here's my 2.5 year old

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[atomic sagebrush]

Oh gosh huge congrats!!! There is a lot pink friendly about what you did!! I can't give you odds or anything but you are definitely in with what I consider a very solid pink sway.

[Prayingforagirl67]

That honestly sounds like a pretty solid girl sway to me! Best of luck to you!

[dreamofdaughter]

I would feel pretty confident with that sway. Good luck!

[atomic sagebrush]

OMGOSH I missed the pic! Gorgeous princess!

[The Anchor]

Gorgeous little girl! GL!