November Chit Chat

**Flava** · November 21st, 2011, 02:25 PM

purple-such a nice story! I hope you do get 2 girls!
i was planing 2G1B but did not happened...oh well

DM-hope you feel better soon!

**DoulaMama** · November 21st, 2011, 02:27 PM

Originally Posted by Mochagirl

Wow, DM - 2 days - you must be so excited!

I'm doing ok - I have my ups and downs. The bleeding's almost completely stopped - just some brown spotting. I go for my u/s tomorrow and my blood test Friday, so that will give me a better idea whether I'll be ready to conceive this cycle. I miss being pregnant and just want to have a baby to look forward to again.

I hope that everything looks great on the u/s, Mocha. If the baby had passed away quite some time ago, the hcg is probably gone from your system. I really hope you can try right away. It sounds like you need to

Lots of love from me to you~ know that you're on my mind all the time. xoxo

**DoulaMama** · November 21st, 2011, 02:28 PM

Originally Posted by Flava

purple-such a nice story! I hope you do get 2 girls!
i was planing 2G1B but did not happened...oh well

DM-hope you feel better soon!

Thank you

Not too long til testing time, hey???!! FX'd Flava!!!!

**begonia** · November 21st, 2011, 02:56 PM

PP I think BBGG would be lovely; FX you get what you desire.

HUGS Mocha!! FX you get the all clear to go again and have a post-mc BFP, too!

**begonia** · November 21st, 2011, 02:57 PM

Wow, DM ... 2 days til the big u/s? No worries though love. She's still going to be a she

**DoulaMama** · November 21st, 2011, 03:05 PM

Originally Posted by begonia

Wow, DM ... 2 days til the big u/s? No worries though love. She's still going to be a she

Thanks Hun

I'm hoping you're right! I do feel it's a girl and the pics are pretty good but I really am terrified that I've built myself up to see a girl on Wed. and I won't get to see that....

How have you been, B? I'm hoping that you're feeling a little bit better but totally understand if you don't. It wasn't until DS2 had been around for a few months that I really started to feel lucky to have him. Only 15 or so weeks to go!!! Wow!

**begonia** · November 21st, 2011, 03:15 PM

15 weeks left is freaking me out. I'm not doing well at all honestly

I wish I'd just taken the two girls I have and not wanted a 3rd child ... but I really did want 3 kids, it's just now that I don't because it's a girl. I wish so badly that I had realized that BEFORE ttc but I thought I'd be OK with another one. I feel awful that my girls have ME for their mom when there are so many women who would cherish daughters. But I had 2 days last week that I managed not to cry so hey that's progress right? Two days out of two months, LOL. What sucks most for me about this is I am normally such a happy person in general, and this has just wrecked me. I miss being me

You know if I thought there was ANY doubt on those pics we (because so many others saw them too!) wouldn't have let you get your hopes up! I think there will be LOTS of shock if you come back 11/23 with anything other than confirmation of your daughter. FX for you, but really ... like with Glitter ... I think it's pretty darn close to 100% girl already!

**DoulaMama** · November 21st, 2011, 04:15 PM

Originally Posted by begonia

15 weeks left is freaking me out. I'm not doing well at all honestly

I wish I'd just taken the two girls I have and not wanted a 3rd child ... but I really did want 3 kids, it's just now that I don't because it's a girl. I wish so badly that I had realized that BEFORE ttc but I thought I'd be OK with another one. I feel awful that my girls have ME for their mom when there are so many women who would cherish daughters. But I had 2 days last week that I managed not to cry so hey that's progress right? Two days out of two months, LOL. What sucks most for me about this is I am normally such a happy person in general, and this has just wrecked me. I miss being me

You know if I thought there was ANY doubt on those pics we (because so many others saw them too!) wouldn't have let you get your hopes up! I think there will be LOTS of shock if you come back 11/23 with anything other than confirmation of your daughter. FX for you, but really ... like with Glitter ... I think it's pretty darn close to 100% girl already!

I'm so sorry that this has been such a terrible time for you

I wish I could do something for you. The only thing I can say, and I'm sure others have said this too, is that in 1...or 5..or 20 years down the road, you'll be so incredibly happy to have the family you have. I know it doesn't help much right now...and you're probably sick of hearing all of this "It'll be ok" talk....but one day you'll look back and everything will be so different. So much love from me, coming your way~~~~

(Thank you B~ I just can't wait to hear the tech say, "It's a girl!" OMG...I may just pass out

)

**Mochagirl** · November 21st, 2011, 04:21 PM

begonia - sorry you're still having such a tough time

**Glittergirl** · November 21st, 2011, 04:21 PM

DM is it really just a few more days?? I am SO stalking you til you post your little girl parts!
Begonia--sorry you are feeling down, just take baby steps...2 days of not crying is in the right direction. take all the time you need, as I recall DH was not opposed to trying again in a few years right? It's just the hormones that are getting to you right now, I find myself way more sensitive lately too, and when GD rears it's ugly head, that doesn't help!

Hope everyone is doing great. I'm going to my routine exam tomorrow I've been having what I think are Braxton Hicks but they can be quite uncomfortable and I get them a few times an hour. Hope my doctor can help ease my mind.

Ok I'll be back on later....can't wait for your scan DM!!!
We're getting ready for thanksgiving here...Happy holidays to everyone!

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