Think I ruined my sway

[love being a mummy]

Pretty sure creamy CM is starting.
Last few cycles I have O'd 4days after creamy CM
I am CD12 so that means I will O CD16

We DTD CD9 and CD11 cause O was supposed to be CD18

Would it be ok to DTD CD13 and CD15 ?

Would there be any sperm waiting there from CD11 if I O on CD16 ?

DH really wants to DTD tonight, what should I do?

[rainbowflower]

some sperm might survive that long but not many - your chance of pregnancy with a 5 day cut off is less than 10%.

I think it's OK to DTD on CD13 and CD15, but not if you DTD tonight - if you DTD tonight I'd then DTD on CD 14 and 16 instead, or just CD15 if you prefer so you have around 48hrs in between each BD

[nuthinbutpink]

I would personally never BD the day before O and not on O for a boy. 3 girls DTD everyday leading up to O here!

[LolaInLove]

I would personally never BD the day before O and not on O for a boy. 3 girls DTD everyday leading up to O here!

ME TOO! I would make sure you dtd on O day for sure, with at least 24-48 hours in between the last one. But, of course, as NBP demonstrates here, timing doesn't matter!

[TTC5]

I would not dtd/release today and hold for 2 days then have sex in 2 days and again on O day. So, an O-2 and O.

[Hobbermittens]

I agree with TTC5, if your DH can hold out that long. Or else CD13, CD15 AND CD16.

[Plum3]

I would personally never BD the day before O and not on O for a boy. 3 girls DTD everyday leading up to O here!

So when would you attempt then?

[atomic sagebrush]

Ok so today is the 26th that would put you at CD 15, yes? How sure are you that you're going to O on CD 16??

I'm obviously late to the party but I am assuming you DID go ahead and BD on the 23rd?? Or not? Either way, it doesn't really matter.

My thinking is still that you should just go ahead and DTD on o-1 and O day. So that would be tonight and tomorrow, do I have that right??

[atomic sagebrush]

I would personally never BD the day before O and not on O for a boy. 3 girls DTD everyday leading up to O here!

Yes, but I have 3 boys and maybe even 4 all conceived before O. I've never once BD on O day when I was TTC because my cervix gets really sore that day and I can't even stand it.

With DS 1 I had seriously just gotten off AF and it should have been safe, with DS 2 my husband changed his mind aobut TTC and so we stopped DTD in what we thought was enough time, with DS 3 my husband wasn't even HOME when I Oed, with DS 4 I didn't even have any EWCM and didn't realize I had Oed so I suspect I hadn't Oed yet.

JMO but I don't think timing matters and I think people need to do what they need to do to get them pg. People aren't conceiving with these one-shot-on-O-day boy attempts.

[love being a mummy]

Ok so today is the 26th that would put you at CD 15, yes? How sure are you that you're going to O on CD 16??

I'm obviously late to the party but I am assuming you DID go ahead and BD on the 23rd?? Or not? Either way, it doesn't really matter.

My thinking is still that you should just go ahead and DTD on o-1 and O day. So that would be tonight and tomorrow, do I have that right??

Yep the 26th was CD15


Atm it's the 27th here, CD16.
-opt today used FMU


I think O is on schedule CD19