November Chit Chat

[Flava]

DD- you reeeeeeeeeeellllllllllly must hide all the girl stuff then from DH! You know what I wish i have this with my DH (only a boy lol but never gonna happen) it's going to be great to see his face when his girl comes out for sure!!! keep that joy for him!

[Flava]

[Sunset]

just saw your news DM, congratulations!!!!!!!

[Mochagirl]

There's no way I could resist shouting my news from the mountaintops if I were you, DM - you are a very strong woman to be able to keep it a secret from dh! Congrats again - I just hope I can experience joy like yours sometime in the not too far future.

[shouldihope?]

DM- so happy for you. Congrats!!! How exciting!!!!

Happy Thanksgiving all!!!

[DoulaMama]

Flava- It's been hidden!!!My hubby honestly wouldn't think twice about finding a girl clothes stash because I've gone out and purchased girly clothing every single time I found out I was pregnant...silly, I know....I have about 5 or 6 sleepers in pink/purple that I fell in love with and had to bring home and he knows that I did this....so if he were to find a stash of stuff I'm sure he would just feel sorry for me. My hubby really is hoping that this one is our daughter. He sees how hard it's been on me, every time.

Sunset- Thank you!!!! xoxo

Mocha- Thank you, again!! I want to scream it from the rooftops so desperately!!! My hubby LOVES the surprise so much and I have found out before(twice!) and kept it a secret from everyone. This time I know he'll be shocked! I want to see his face!!
( I also want to protect my boys and this baby from the ridiculous comments that I KNOW will be said once they know it's a girl. My third boy wasn't even celebrated by family-mainly IL's(my mom was the only one that was happy for us, and would happy, no matter what it was)...and I know it's going to be so different this time seeing as this will be the first Granddaughter/Niece in our family on both sides. I feel so bad for my boys when they hear those comments

Shouldihope- Thanks, Hun!!! xoxox

[DoulaMama]

So here is the one photo that I got It's not super clear but I'm feeling very positive that is 100% GIRL after the u/s yesterday.

[zanacal]

Can I just vent (it's nothing to do with babies!) - I just heard the completely shit news that my friend's daughter who has cancer (do you remember me saying they only found it when she had her c-section?) has discovered that it's an incredibly rare cancer. Nobody has every survived it in this country and only 1 woman in the US. She's in her early twenties and has a newborn baby - and she's going out to buy her school shoes because she doesn't think she'll ever get to do it otherwise. I'm so heartbroken for her and her family.

[zanacal]

Sorry DM, we posted at the same time! The picture looks pretty clear to me

Btw, I need a pep talk. I've started worrying about something happening to me during labour and wondering if it's selfish of me to want another baby and put myself in that position when I have my three gorgeous boys to be here for. I know it's unlikely and I remember having similar fears with DS2 (as it happens it was him who was poorly and not me!). I'm remembering those contractions near the end when I feel like I'm going to die!!

[DoulaMama]

Can I just vent (it's nothing to do with babies!) - I just heard the completely shit news that my friend's daughter who has cancer (do you remember me saying they only found it when she had her c-section?) has discovered that it's an incredibly rare cancer. Nobody has every survived it in this country and only 1 woman in the US. She's in her early twenties and has a newborn baby - and she's going out to buy her school shoes because she doesn't think she'll ever get to do it otherwise. I'm so heartbroken for her and her family.

OMG. I am so sorry. I cannot imagine the pain in her heart ~tears~ How incredibly heart breaking.