Hope, Thanks what is your plan for dtd are you having a cut off?.
Lemon, When I concieved our d/s we did fr bd so it was pretty much everyday from af to af which never came! obviously. So i have a very strong feeling d/h has high sperm count id rather him release himself every day for 12 days and then twice a day on day of attempt with doing the deed with second to weaken the sperm count and by doing it so close to o i am hoping to have a chance.
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November 23rd, 2011, 07:38 PM #11
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November 23rd, 2011, 07:53 PM #12Big Dreamer
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Hey pink!
lol, i have no plan!
Really I wanted a one time attempt with cut off...a year later, I am getting too old for this! And frustrated and now obsessed with the perfect sway that means nothing!
I thought I od on monday but now I think I reacted to a fake lh surge early in my cycle. I think I will o tomorrow.
We dtd on cd 8, 11, 12 did not count as too shallow, 13...I am cd 14 and due to o tomorrow.
DH had a good sperm count when we checked...... years ago...so who knows!
He has been releasing for me and still dtd everyday....what do you think...stop at a 2.5 day cut off or keep going??
I guess I was wondering why a few people were thinking of a one time deal...not as likely to get pregnant I thought.
That is a lot of bding last time you conceived ds....wow!
Have you used douching or any lubricants????
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November 23rd, 2011, 08:10 PM #13
Never ever used a douche as I wouldnt know where to start and only ever have used sylk as a lube and that was in march this year and i had a chemical preg not saying the sylk had anything to do with it but girls can be concieved without it I will be just using Rephresh. I am not going to stress about anything with my sway. This sway I have now is over a years worth of changing and planing and its the most basic sway I have planed for myself yet. I will stick to it because i dont find it stressful. The one time dtd is because my cycle can be wacky and i want to try and weaken d/h sperm as much as i can before i get my first pos opk then dtd once on that then no more. I know timing is least imp but I cant say for sure when d/s was concieved so will try this first and see how we go thats all I can do! And also d/s was a very fr dtd so will just try this way for next baby.
Hmmm as for your question Are your cycles spot on every month? If it was me and i knew I was def going to o in 2.5 days then I would just leave it at that , If your diet is good and ions and everything else then 2.5 day is great ( i think )
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November 24th, 2011, 04:32 PM #14
rainbowflower, how you said I should aim to use the rephresh a day before attempt should i use the full app?
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November 24th, 2011, 11:19 PM #15
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November 25th, 2011, 10:12 AM #16Cycle#1 Jan/Feb 2013: 10 eggs retrieved, 8 mature, 8 fertilized. 1 expanded blast frozen to batch.
Cycle #2 May/June 2013: 17 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fertilized, 3 blasts frozen. Sending all 4 to Natera: 2 normals- 1 girl (cycle 2) & 1 boy (cycle 1)
Cycle #3 September 2013: 11 eggs retrieved, 8 mature, 8 fertilized. 4 biopsied. 2 normal boys
FET #1: October 25th: BFN
Cycle#4: Feb/March 2014: 12 eggs retrieved, 11 mature, 10 fertilized. 1 normal XX! Transfer March 3rd. BFP: 3/9/14!!!! Beta: 7dp6dt:38, 9dp6dt:139!, 6weeks 1 day: heartbeat!!!
She's here and I'm in love
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November 25th, 2011, 05:20 PM #17
that is a good cut off. I am doing the same thing, have you had your d/h abstain or release?
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November 26th, 2011, 08:32 AM #18
I've had dh release every day. Yesterday when I got smiley I had him release in am, I did rephresh and we dtd later that night. I felt my ph was a little high, so I figured the extra release and shot of rephresh would counteract the 12 hrs later dtd. If that makes sense.
Cycle#1 Jan/Feb 2013: 10 eggs retrieved, 8 mature, 8 fertilized. 1 expanded blast frozen to batch.
Cycle #2 May/June 2013: 17 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fertilized, 3 blasts frozen. Sending all 4 to Natera: 2 normals- 1 girl (cycle 2) & 1 boy (cycle 1)
Cycle #3 September 2013: 11 eggs retrieved, 8 mature, 8 fertilized. 4 biopsied. 2 normal boys
FET #1: October 25th: BFN
Cycle#4: Feb/March 2014: 12 eggs retrieved, 11 mature, 10 fertilized. 1 normal XX! Transfer March 3rd. BFP: 3/9/14!!!! Beta: 7dp6dt:38, 9dp6dt:139!, 6weeks 1 day: heartbeat!!!
She's here and I'm in love
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November 27th, 2011, 01:59 AM #19
I am thinking of having my d/h release twice then dtd and then the next day have d/h release twice again and dtd again and have my cut off with my near positive opk. I will alos get him to release once a day for 10 days before our first attempt. i am thinking getting in two attempts with low sperm count may help.. will see. your attempt sounds great I would stop there for this month if it was me and see how you go. Hope you get you bfp!!!!!
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November 27th, 2011, 11:50 AM #20Cycle#1 Jan/Feb 2013: 10 eggs retrieved, 8 mature, 8 fertilized. 1 expanded blast frozen to batch.
Cycle #2 May/June 2013: 17 eggs retrieved, 14 mature, 11 fertilized, 3 blasts frozen. Sending all 4 to Natera: 2 normals- 1 girl (cycle 2) & 1 boy (cycle 1)
Cycle #3 September 2013: 11 eggs retrieved, 8 mature, 8 fertilized. 4 biopsied. 2 normal boys
FET #1: October 25th: BFN
Cycle#4: Feb/March 2014: 12 eggs retrieved, 11 mature, 10 fertilized. 1 normal XX! Transfer March 3rd. BFP: 3/9/14!!!! Beta: 7dp6dt:38, 9dp6dt:139!, 6weeks 1 day: heartbeat!!!
She's here and I'm in love