April/May/June 2021

[polaris.kai]

Really hoping today is the day for you. That must've been a long weekend waiting. Will have everything crossed for you this week.

Thank you me too! It has been a very long weekend and I couldn't sleep last night because I've been imagining hearing all the different results

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[polaris.kai]

Low risk and it's another girl

As a lot of people have said, I'm happy to have another girl but the fact thats its not a boy and I may never have a son is heart breaking. I feel like I have failed. We changed so much and it still wasn't enough. We weren't really trying but we still changed our lifestyle. We want 4 but I feel it in my heart thats its most likely going to be 4 girls at this point since nothing we have done has helped.

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[atomic sagebrush]

Radiologist updated my ultrasound report after one week saying that possible abnormality of distal spine however when I met the doc after the ultrasound they didn’t show any concern. I really don’t know how come after a week they gave me this kind of study. I had a panic attack after hearing this so was rushed to the hospital. There I met the high risk doctor who did my ultrasound again . She almost spent an hour to check everything to make sure that they are not missing anything. After her thorough study she assured me that she doesn’t she any neural tubal defect or anything and baby is doing absolutely fine . Baby was measuring ahead and was fully active. I got a call from the my doctor later on and she said that I would trust high risk doctor , so if she said everything is fine then everything should be ok. I am really confused with these statements. Going for an ultrasound again next week with the high risk doctor as already had a scheduled appointment for consultation. I hope I would get my NIPT results by then. Praying for the best. Please keep me in your prayers.
Thank you so much once again for always being so kind and supportive.


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Oh how nervewracking. I agree that if the high risk doc doesn't see anything to be concerned over I would not worry. I do want you to know that the NIPT ~probably~ would not reveal a neural tube defect as those are not genetic in most cases but they will be able to see on the ultrasound if anything was wrong. for healthy baby!

[atomic sagebrush]

Congrats on your new baby girl Polaris!! I'm sorry it wasn't the news you were hoping for.

[g.pooja812]

Oh how nervewracking. I agree that if the high risk doc doesn't see anything to be concerned over I would not worry. I do want you to know that the NIPT ~probably~ would not reveal a neural tube defect as those are not genetic in most cases but they will be able to see on the ultrasound if anything was wrong. for healthy baby!

Thank you so much Atomic! Ya even my doc told me NIPT doesn’t show any neural tube defect . I am really hopeful that all is well this baby and will bring this baby home for my daughter. She is really excited !


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[g.pooja812]

What was the specific criteria they were concerned about?

Praying for good news on the upcoming ultrasound!

I personally think the nub is rising and would guess boy on this.

Thank you! My daughter is really hoping for a baby brother however doesn’t matter for me and my husband . We are praying for a healthy baby even if it’s another girl for us we will be more than happy[emoji3590]


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[g.pooja812]

Low risk and it's another girl

As a lot of people have said, I'm happy to have another girl but the fact thats its not a boy and I may never have a son is heart breaking. I feel like I have failed. We changed so much and it still wasn't enough. We weren't really trying but we still changed our lifestyle. We want 4 but I feel it in my heart thats its most likely going to be 4 girls at this point since nothing we have done has helped.

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Congratulations for the healthy baby Polaris!
I am really sorry you didn’t get the desired gender as I know how much you were hoping for it. I am sure with time you will be all good. You are an amazing mother! If you wanna talk to someone please know I am always there! Take care
Sending you virtual love and hugs[emoji8]


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[reddevil]

Low risk and it's another girl

As a lot of people have said, I'm happy to have another girl but the fact thats its not a boy and I may never have a son is heart breaking. I feel like I have failed. We changed so much and it still wasn't enough. We weren't really trying but we still changed our lifestyle. We want 4 but I feel it in my heart thats its most likely going to be 4 girls at this point since nothing we have done has helped.

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I’m so sorry it wasn’t the news you were hoping for, and totally understand that confusion of not being sad for what you have but what you don’t have. Your girls will be thrilled and a little gaggle of girls will be too cute!

[ProudMom90]

First of all congrats on the low risk!
Sorry to hear you didnt get the gender you desired❤️
Know we are here for you!

[ProudMom90]

Cant believe it...
32 more hours and we find out if we are having a girl or a boy
Excited and nervous at the same time...


Edit 4pm: lady doing the ultrasound has covid so she has arranged that we can do the ultrasound in another clinic with her colleauge!!! Omg in less than one and a half hours we know!!