not sure about tonight

[TTC5]

Good Luck!

[love being a mummy]

postive opk today on cd 18 for the 1st time...VERY late in O'ing..i wonder why..diet was teh same. anyway we dtd'd immediately after the +opk..will try more tomorrow. thx!

good luck

[gizmo77]

thanks guys. just an update, my cm turned pretty clear as O FINALLY approached on cd 19 (TWOO DAYS LATE????). so we dtd'd on cd 18 in aftrenoon after 1st positive opk, then dtd again that night bc i was having some MAJOR ewcm , didnt want to waste it. then cd 19 MAJOR holy O pains, like never before, and dtd'd that night also (positive opk that day as well). and negative opk today cd20. hope that was enough. poor dh said he ll never have sex again after that marathon!! ;-) gosh i hope that did it. if not, im goin on clomid. maybe ill get my twin boys that way

[Flava]

wow gizmo exactly the same thin happened to me! I got + on cd 18 and 19! very late! Only we did not dtd on cd18 when i got the most clear ewcm... but on cd 19 late night and now is cd20 and temps are up so it was only 1 try for us. I hope not to late and swayed pink...but my cervix is still HSO so don't know what's up with that did i O'd or not yet?
I hate swaying...

[gizmo77]

i hate swaying too flava. if temps are up id assume you did O on cd19. did you take an opk on cd20? for me too it takes a day for CP to become LFC..good luck!!!!!

[atomic sagebrush]

Good luck you guys! This is an exciting month with a lot of great attempts!!!

[gizmo77]

thx, ive already started making plans for next month. i am so depressed right now. my husband is doing everything to make me happy. i just dont think it happened this month. absolutely no signs during my2 week wait. im really negative about this. i just want to do IVF. however there is no money for that. i dont know why im not getting preg. its only been 21 mos since last pregnancy/birth. and i know i sound spoiled bc ive only been on the diet since jul and this is only my 2nd attempt but im frightened that something is wrong...just have a feeling that my fertility has dropped. i just wish i knew what i knew 10 mos ago and tried then. also dh says maybe its BC of this diet since my body isnt isnt used to it that im not getting pg...? i dunno, alli know is i want a baby (maybe 2) and im depressed. sorry to vent

[atomic sagebrush]

I'm sorry gizmo!

that it happens fast. Remember, even with ladies who are not trying to sway, it can sometimes take 6 months to conceive. Thinking of you and sending you as much blue dust as I can make!!

[gizmo77]

thanks. the last 2 times they were both one hit wonders so it upsets me if things arent the same. do i have a rigid "boy" personality or what?
anyway, must have been the hormones, bc i took a pg test and its positive!

[LolaInLove]

I think it's the consistency that's important - so when you collect it on 2 fingers and pull them apart, does it stretch between your fingers iykwim?!

Do you usually O on the second day of OPKs? Maybe DTD tonight and if you get a + tomorrow stick to your plan but if you don't wait until the next day to DTD (when you'll hopefully have a +OPK) and then DTD after that also. That way, if your O is delayed this month you won't have DTD more than 3 times in a row and you'll have an another 48 hour abstinence in there to boost sperm count.

Actually, I think this is what I'd do to sway blue anyway - DTD every other day/48 hours and if you happen to O on one of the 'in between' days then stick in an extra DTD on that day!

I think this is a surefire way to get knocked up and sway blue at the same time!