swayers over 35 buddy group

[HopeandDreamG]

Oh, look at this nice little Quick Reply box! Fancy!

I was feeling awesome about this month, and now I'm really starting to feel non-confident now that the 2WW is here. I hate not being able to get pg. I thought the getting pregnant would be the easy part, and the getting a girl would be the hard part. Now I'm thinking I'll be lucky to get pg again.

Found out my DH is not taking his vitamins regularly...wth? We had an amazingly stressful days after I found that out, without resolving anything. I think he's tired of me being crazy and obsessing, but it's hard not to!

I have DH's supps in a weekly med case. I keep it right on the counter so he doesn't forget (and I can see). I fill it up every Sat afternoon....I do as much as possible so he plays along! I even pack his lunch, make all the crystal light bottles etc. I think the less he has to do the longer he will do this with me!

[LolaInLove]

Thanks, Lola - it just feels good to be getting ready to TTC again. I know the 2WW will be painfully long and if I do get a BFP I'm going to be scared to death of another m/c, but it still feels good to move on and look to the future.

So good to read that! And you know, many of the ladies with losses here have gone on to have another one.....PrincessSarah, 3P1B....lots, so we just have to believe it will be ok next time and not worry unless you have a reason to worry.

[lemon2012]

All the best Mocha.

Hope&dreaming, I had a look at your chart, but Im so hopeless at those things, I wish I had an answer for you.

Amari try not to stress, talk about crazy dreams I have them all the time lately, I tend to have scarey dreams which are not fun.

Twinkle I have 2 girls they are 8 & 6 and then this one will be like a single child really, how did you find it with your youngest, did your other kids all just love it or what?? Cause when this one is born my girls will be 9 & 7 quiet an age gap.

Goodluck Kitten, I see your 3dpo.

Lemon2012 I have no idea what ovucue or cbfm mean, could you tell me please.

CBFM clearblue fertility monitor
ovucue is a monitor to detect changes in saliva or vaginal readings...I only have the saliva monitor

[lemon2012]

Hi everyone,
I have not been reading as much as of late...it takes me a while to catch up!
It is really interesting bc we really need to focus on getting pregnant and be healthy as we are over 35! We have many with mc and trying again and I hope we have a lot of BFP before Christmas!
It is still hard to let go of the ttc a specific gender, I think that is why I have been so down.
And, I have been buying boy toys and I long for a pretty pink doll!!!!
I have a feeling that will never be me. I also worry about missing out on the mother daughter relationship. How do we overcome this?

Mocha...I so hope your body is being kind and ovulating
Hope....how are you????? if you do not belive in timing, wld yo dtd again so you don't miss o?
amari: what is your plan again?
and, um,...seriously, you weigh less than 100 lbs!!!! Eat breakie...lol!
TTC boy...not sure how to sway boy unless you eat a lot of processed food and maybe dtd close to o? then again, I also dtd close to o again...and I hope for girl! ugh!
kitten....how are you holding up?
lola...how are things for you?


Take care everyone?
anyone believe in moon or jonas???
PS: I am 6 ro 7 dpo and I hve some stomach twinges and some cm....just reading into things????

[amari]

Thanks for your responses ladies, I feel a little better.

Hopesanddreams-Yes, that low blood sugar thing gets to me too! At least we know its' working!

Mocha-I guess I'm on a similar plan, just I do around 9, 1 or 2 and then around 8 or 9pm. Thanks!

Lemon-That could be a great sign!! Fingers crossed! You asked about my plan.. is I am on provera waiting for my period now, will start clomid on days 5-9. I am ironing out the details but thinking frequent release from days 5 through +opk and then 2 attempts?? I'm nervous about this b/c I got prego with ds1 after dtd 18 days in a row. And with being on clomid I don't think I can use benadryl or represh so idk?

Hope everyone is having a good night!!

[HopeandDreamG]

Lemon~ I had a dream that you posted on a thread that you had a dream we were both pregnant with girls due July... How funny!! Except not so funny that the conception would be a really long time from now to be due July...Don't feel like figuring it out now wanted to post before I forgot my dream!! I know I owe you a PM!

Oh and I didn't DTD again because I believe more sperm= blue, not because of timing

I'm curious what everyone thinks of the Jonas theory and moon signs. Would you actually skip a whole month ttc if it was an opposite moon (boy/girl) then the gender you desired?? I can't see skipping an entire month but I can't say it wouldn't bother me at least a little!

[lemon2012]

Hi everyone,
You had a dream we had a girl...lol!
Maybe the girls came early
Funny, bc years ago I had a reading by cheri22 and she said boy July...but that was years ago!
Our due date would be August right?
How are you?
I am cd8 or 9 I think. No more cm today but stomach ache. I am so tired and ready for bed. Of course, it snowed this am....ugh! I have been cold all day long.
I think I am just wiped out ttc and working full time...plus long night tomorrow. work from 8 am to 8 pm! And, I am not a nurse! That would make sense!

My month was girl with moon and jonas....I was hoping. We dtd on Jonas day just in case...lol! We also dtd moon day (which would be 2 days after o, maybe even one!!!) bc it was girl.
However, I have no experience with the theories and really do not really believe in it either...maybe just hoping, praying, dreaming!

What low blood sugar thing????

I have been gaining weight and going off the diet.
I am sad,...I really want a third, but I really want a girl.
I don't want to think about it or plan this anymore.

Some people are just lucky and it just happens....Hope had that experience. It must be hard this time round.
Mocha is ready and gearing up to go....
I really hope we are all lucky and we all get our Christmas Girly wishes
How I would love to buy a doll and buy pink!!!!

PS: at 8 -9 days past o,...no real signs right?
My temp dipped a tad this am, not a significant amount and it is more in keeping with previous months

bye for now girls!

[lemon2012]

Thanks for your responses ladies, I feel a little better.

Hopesanddreams-Yes, that low blood sugar thing gets to me too! At least we know its' working!

Mocha-I guess I'm on a similar plan, just I do around 9, 1 or 2 and then around 8 or 9pm. Thanks!

Lemon-That could be a great sign!! Fingers crossed! You asked about my plan.. is I am on provera waiting for my period now, will start clomid on days 5-9. I am ironing out the details but thinking frequent release from days 5 through +opk and then 2 attempts?? I'm nervous about this b/c I got prego with ds1 after dtd 18 days in a row. And with being on clomid I don't think I can use benadryl or represh so idk?

Hope everyone is having a good night!!

amari- I was on clomid for ds1.
I got pregnant my second month using it. In fact, there were two mature follicles and only one matured or took!
I really believe the first month I took clomid it was a girl. Not sure why,..maybe gut reaction but also my body felt fuller and tingly right away. I had the worst mentral cramps and truly believe it was a miscarriage.
I had a faint pos at 9 dpo but maybe that was something else....a few hours later I tried another test and it was gone.
Anyway, I dtd cd 9, 12, 14, 15, 16 and I think I ovulated around cd 16 ot 17.
Hope that helps!
Clomid sways girl!

[Yuzu]

I have DH's supps in a weekly med case. I keep it right on the counter so he doesn't forget (and I can see). I fill it up every Sat afternoon....I do as much as possible so he plays along! I even pack his lunch, make all the crystal light bottles etc. I think the less he has to do the longer he will do this with me!

Yeah, it looks like I'm going to have to hold him down and pop them in his mouth! I was really mad at him. Plus, those supps are expensive!

[sweetsister]

Hi Ladies ..im trying for the last time this month i think i am or will o today OR tomorrow i have dtd 2x a few days ago and feel positive they are there waiting.
I also sooooo want to buy a doll LEMON ,i almost bought one for myself last time i was in a toy shop .And i will probably still if i get a girl ill get one for me and one for her ...so we can play youuuu know?
Or ill end up one of those old ladies collecting dolls OMG!
I dont think we ever grow up i still want to play with dolls!!