UK SMOG Wannabes ~ December

[Kell]

Deaks Hun I hope your little bean is sticky for you, back pain can be a good sign as well! Fingers crossed for you, but totally understand if you do have a small break, keep us up dated xx

[Wishing4Pink]

CONGRATS!!!! must be a great feeling to sell and find some place so soon....wish it was me!!! My house not going up for sale till end feb, well whenever we can get the weather to paint outside and finish garden!! Wasn't in a HUGE hurry, but having 2 cots in my room is no chance! My ds1 will have to move schools too as we are in a village, but he's cool with that, hope ur ds1 is too. 5 is my fav no too!!! Not sure about the pill and swaying, but I fell pg with Ds1 on the pill, never missed 1 or was ill.... that was the combined pill tho, heard the mini pill (high in progesterone) might sway girl??????? You should look into it. Diff is with the mini pill u have to take it at the EXACT same time each day.

Thanks Inglewood, it's certainly one thing ticked off the list now. Oh wanted to move before we started ttc, so that will keep him happy. We've had the house up for a year nearly and had to refuse a few offers as there was nothing we liked at the time. Ds1 is fine with it, looking forward to it i think. He's had a while to get used to the idea though! I hope you manage to sell quickly so you can get settled hopefully before the babies arrive, fx.

Just re-read my post, and seen all the mistakes...can you tell i'm in pain slightly, lol. Fell down the stairs yesterday with ds2 in my arms. Thankfully he just landed on me and i landed on the wooden floor on my lower back and hit my head hard on the stairs, thankfully oh was there. Really v bruised and sore today though. Can't complain as it could have been alot worse.

xx

[chocolate]

Inglewood and Charlie, sorry you are having worries. Hope you can both speak to someone if you feel things aren't getting better.

Not great news here. After having a pregnant on my digital last night, my lines were very faded again this morning and I have been having severe back pain this afternoon. Basically identical symptoms to my chemical last month except I haven't started bleeding yet as the progesterone will be delaying that. Going to test again first thing in the morning but I'm really not hopeful. Just had a long chat to dh and I think my hardcore swaying days are over. I have lost too much weight, I feel unhealthy and I can't cope with the emotional roller coaster anymore.

I might consider sticking with the timing and acidiphilus (that has actually proved much more successful in lowering my ph than the diet) but ditching everything else. I have also just been reading up on what could cause chemicals other than short lp/low progesterone (which wont be the case this cycle) and it's possible that it could be blood clotting which baby aspirin would help prevent so I might start taking that. Need to speak to my doctor and see what she says. I know I sound pessimistic considering I haven't even started bleeding yet but I really don't hold out much chance.

Anyway I'm sorry to be on such downer...again... But I just wanted to explain why I might disappear off the thread, at least for a bit. It's just too hard. X

Ah Deaks can I understand that, test in the morning and if you think things arent looking good then I think I would drop as much of the sway as you can. Id still generally eat girl friendly food but I would add in a meal a day that you just like without analysing it, and probably the biggest thing would not go hardcore with timing/frequency etc.
Maybe get your plan together and then limit yourself to coming on here every few days or once a week to keep relaxed.

Really hope we hear some good news from you tomorrow am though xx

[zanacal]

I'm sorry deaks, my fingers are crossed that you're wrong and that everything will be ok x

[Sunset]

Evening ladies! I'm in the middle of writing christmas cards and i would love to send some out to my smog ladies so if anyone would like a christmas card please pm me your address

Wishing4pink ~ congrats on selling the house!!!! how exciting!! perfect christmas present!

Charliespy ~ i'm worried about you hun, please do keep us posted and try and get as much rest as possible!!! ((hugs))

Deaks ~ Oh no I'm keeping my fingers crossed you're wrong and that your line is darker again tomorrow when you test! it would be so unfortunate for you to suffer to chemicals 2 months in a row and yes, i can definitely understand if you stop the hardcore swaying.. i hope you do decide to stay with us because i will miss you if you don't, but i can also understand why you feel the need for a break from smog.. i'm always here if you need to talk hun ((hugs))

Zanacal ~ less than a week to go how are you feeling? getting nervous?

[indigoviolet]

Oh gosh how worrying for you both Charlie and Deaks. charlie- when I had bleeding early on and it was the weekend I just went to A&E and got seen to there. They were really understanding and helped reassure me. Maybe you could do that. when does your dh get home? what a complete pain he is away, you don't need that. hugs to you hun, will be praying for you and your little bean

deaks- praying for you too. i so so hope and pray everything will be OK for you. It is such early days and there is still lots of hope. It is such a worrying time, terrifying in fact.

[deaks66]

Thanks ladies, I took a baby aspirin tonight having read clotting can prevent proper implantation. Probably useless and too late but had to do something. Will see what tomorrow holds. No bleeding of any type yet but then I wouldn't normally get anything until the eve of 14dpo when on progesterone. Confusingly I don't know whether I would get bleeding early if implantation started but unsuccessful or whether my body would just wait til it would normally dispel lining if bfn from the start. X

[indigoviolet]

Deaks- how are your temps hon? Mine are quite low but still above coverline. That should give you some insight too?
sending you so many sticky, positive vibes

[deaks66]

Deaks- how are your temps hon? Mine are quite low but still above coverline. That should give you some insight too?
sending you so many sticky, positive vibes

Thanks Hun. Temping is kinda pointless when on progesterone as it keeps it high anyway. In fact it doesn't seem to drop until cd2 of next cycle. Will temp in morning though to see. Am desperately hoping that I just caught very early hcg levels and that they need another day or so to increase. This wouldn't be beyond possibility would it? I guess because I normally get af by 11dpo, that I might be forgetting that things might be progressing slower with increased progesterone levels? Oh I don't know....so confused.

[indigoviolet]

I forgot that the progesterone would affect your temps...it is really confusing... but implantation could well have only been a couple of days ago and so still really low levels of hcg and so a really faint line. could also depend on concentration on urine etc, was it fmu you used for your last test? Praying tomorrow brings good news.