swayers over 35 buddy group

[HopeandDreamG]

Hobber~ Here's all my blue dust...ALL of it!!

So this morning I took a FRER and got a BFN I am only 11 days past O, my temp is still up, and I am getting super tired....According to FF AF is due Thursday... so we will see. Do you think I still have a chance???

Been busy all day cleaning out my kids playroom to make room for Christmas toys! Been meaning to do this FOREVER!!!

[Mochagirl]

I still think you have a GREAT chance, hopeanddream!!!!

[Hobbermittens]

Thanks for the blue dust, everyone!!

Hopeanddream, I have heard of plenty of people not getting a BFP until 12DPO or later! FX for you!!

[HopeandDreamG]

Thanks hobber and mocha. Hoping to get a bfp soon. Should I even test in am? Don't want to waste the tests! Maybe I'll start with a cheapie and go from there

[Kitten]

Thanks Mochagirl. I feel the same for you.

HopeandDreamG - A girl I know didn't get a BFP until 15 dpo!! I'd say you definitely still have a chance.

[Yuzu]

Thanks hobber and mocha. Hoping to get a bfp soon. Should I even test in am? Don't want to waste the tests! Maybe I'll start with a cheapie and go from there

Try with a cheapie. I got a negative at 10dpo using a FRER, and a positive at 11dpo using a cheapie. Go figure?

[ILindGurl]

Hello Ladies! I just joined and finally posting -- so excited to see a group for buddies over 35 - woo hoo!

I am 40, and DH is 41. We have 2 gorgeous DSs ages 4.5 and 2.5. We want to add a third soul to our family (and I would love a little girl. DH doesn't care -- he jokes that he wants "an army of men" ARGH!) So, I want to sway but DH won't do much besides agreeing to abstain or do frequent release. He already takes a bunch of vitamins but won't do the "girl" supplements or diet.

I've looked carefully back on how our DSs were conceived and thinking at minimum I maybe should try the opposite? Did anyone else do that? What do you think? DS1 was conceived the first month (I was 34) by dtd 2x on D10 and D13. At the time I had a 27 day cycle and according to the website I used to track I was scheduled to O on D13. I had no idea what I was doing back then, no idea when I actually O'd but just figured we would try a little around O. DS2 was conceived "oops" on D8, so 5 days before my scheduled O, but again I have no idea when I really O'd. So, I'm thinking maybe lots of BD from AF to O?

Also, I know some think this is silly, but all BD attempts with DS were on BOY moons! DS1 was in full moon, and DS2 was hours following new moon. Not sure how much the moons really matter...but I'm thinking maybe we should only BD when there is a girl moon? Maybe dtd everyday of a girl moon until after O. Is that a crazy idea. So it would be like 2-3 days in a row, then 2 days off? (We tried O+12 for 2 months...and DH did abstain the first attempt for 12 days. The second time he did fequent release. But we didn't get preggers and we are too old to wait for this O+12 timing...I can't figure it out.)

Anyone else doing frequent BD??

[HopeandDreamG]

Kitten~ Just saw your siggy CONGRATS...YAY
Yuzu~ I'm still getting negatives, Tried this am with cheapie didn't want to waste a FRER- will use one tomorrow with FMU because FF tells me AF is due and I could test.
Check out my temp its crazy high..and all negatives- I know its still early.
Ilindgurl~ WELCOME- there are some really good thread/stickies about 0+ vs. cutoff- especially addressing the age issue with 0+ not really being great. I don't really believe so much in the moon stuff- r u talking about moon signs or full moon vs. new moon? Theres nothing you can do about when you ovulate whether its in a new moon vs. a full moon. The fact that you conceived boys in the same moon probably speaks to the fact that you O a similar time each month and not much more then that! GL

[Kitten]

HopeandDreamG - thanks!
What are you testing with? Still on the ICs? Maybe a brand name is called for... When I tested, the IC line was barely there, where as the + showed up almost right away and the digital showed "pregnant".

Welcome ILindGurl! Sorry I have no advice as I gave up my sway.

[Mochagirl]

Kitten - how exciting!!!!! I hope you have a sticky pink bean in there!