DH having trouble abstaining

[atomic sagebrush]

It's because you're irresistable Hobber!

[Hobbermittens]

It's because you're irresistable Hobber!

Ha, right. I think it is more the case that he is a rebel, with every fiber of his being, and if I tell him NOT to do something, he just does it more. . Seriously, he's like a child. I don't think he really does it to spite me, but it's that whole "want what you can't have" thing. Sucks. I don't know what to do about it, because now I am afraid he won't stop. He was a lot better with the last attempt--I think he's just so sick of all the swaying? I don't know. I am pretty upset about it. I think he's going to screw it all up!

[atomic sagebrush]

I think that is a "man thing" and a big part of why I think sometimes it's best to leave them out of the equation all together!!! If I ever started telling my hubs to do anything, it's pretty much a guarantee he will do the exact opposite.

[LolaInLove]

Okay, I will get on him about it. I wish he could contain himself. I mean, NO ONE needs to release EVERY DAY-- how can anyone be that horny?

First of all, I LOL at this.....you just got one of those hornballs, girl! But I agree with Atomic, you should just try to not worry about it if you don't think he will abide. Have you said something to him about helping make another boy for your last child, etc. to motivate him? My DH is motivated to be healthy and take his supps and all because I tell him every unhealthy thing he does just takes us one step closer to the sperm bank. He HATES that thought, so he is on it!

[Hobbermittens]

First of all, I LOL at this.....you just got one of those hornballs, girl! But I agree with Atomic, you should just try to not worry about it if you don't think he will abide. Have you said something to him about helping make another boy for your last child, etc. to motivate him? My DH is motivated to be healthy and take his supps and all because I tell him every unhealthy thing he does just takes us one step closer to the sperm bank. He HATES that thought, so he is on it!

Yeaahhh.... I keep telling him, and he seems to be less compliant the more I nag him. He' a rebellious turd sometimes! I finally have started getting up when he does, so I can make sure he doesn't get into trouble. So far he has been good for 2 days...