swayers over 35 buddy group

[Mochagirl]

I'm definitely out this month, CD1 for me. I'm glad af came early because at least I can move on to the next cycle. A New Year's Day BFP would be nice!

[Hobbermittens]

Sorry for the BFN, Mocha. Good luck next cycle--hope you get that New Years BFP! Great way to start out 2012~

[lemon2012]

Yuzu...How are you doing?

WHen is everyone attempting?
Do you think it is taking some of us longer bc we are older? I want to get more aggressive so I have to go for it.
Anyone else doing the same?

I am still perplexed about the rephresh. I think I have drop another sway tactic.
RIght now I have dropped diet, rephresh, timing...hahha, what happened to my sway...lol!

Should we try a roll call to get caught up?

LEMON: cd 5,...waiting to o on cd 14
PLAN: trying to get back on the diet, supplements of vitex only maybe, represh 2-3 days before first attempt, release dh then attempt #2, attempt #3 after o or on o day?
Still working through it,.....all I know is I need sperm in there close to o and I need to stay ready for anything!

Next?

[Hobbermittens]

Hey Lemon, I hope you get a BFP this time!

I am swaying boy and will be attempting in a few days. I am on CD9 now and will be Oing this week! I am drinking all my drinks, taking my supps, and just waiting for a +opk!

[Yuzu]

Hi Lemon, I'm feeling okay, thanks so much

I'm on CD 2 (approximately) and I'm not sure when I'm going to O because my cycle may be totally messed up. Sometime around Christmas I think.
Plan: I'm on no supplements except for Folic Acid, and I've sort of abandoned the diet, though I am still careful to keep my protein low. I'm doing some relaxation and meditation in hopes to keep my body healthy. I'm not going to mess with timing at all; it's too stressful. And I'm not going to POAS until 14dpo so that I don't have another repeat of this last cycle. Chemical pregnancies suck.

[lemon2012]

Hi everyone!
I am cd 6 and still undecided on my bd attempt.
Definitely not true to diet but only bc I ate a lot last night. I skip breakfast and sometimes lunch but I eat tons of yogourt...so, not really true what diet that is. I still eat chicken but not really any red meat...maybe on occasion.
I am taking vitex and folic acid.

Hobbermittens....isn't it funny that we all bd at the same time for different genders? I will o on Monday..you?
Are you abstaining or do you have a sway plan? What do you eat on your diet?
Will you try more than one attempt? I know with DS 1 I was mostly every other day and last attempt was morning of super positive OPK.
DS 2 was late at night either one or two days before o. One time attempt as we had an 11 mos old.

Yuzu.....Christmas is a good time to bd....lol!
I think the relaxation is a good technique for me to learn.
Hopefully the little bean takes next time!!!

I am the world's worst swayer!
I just need to get pregnant so I am trying to decide how often to dtd. What do you think?

Kitten...how is the infection? I am not sure if this is true but is that a sign of gender? I had read many women with UTI have a girl!!! At least there is a possible positive to your infection???

Mocha...how are you? Do you know for sure your levels? Are you doing okay?
Today we are taking the boys skating downtown!

[Mochagirl]

Should we try a roll call to get caught up?

LEMON: cd 5,...waiting to o on cd 14
PLAN: trying to get back on the diet, supplements of vitex only maybe, represh 2-3 days before first attempt, release dh then attempt #2, attempt #3 after o or on o day?
Still working through it,.....all I know is I need sperm in there close to o and I need to stay ready for anything!

Next?

I'll play!

MOCHAGIRL: CD2, waiting to O between CD13 and 16 (December 22nd-25th) (but hopefully earlier!)
PLAN: LE diet (will be 6 weeks on it post-m/c when I O), Vitex, antihistamine around O-time, lots of aspartame around O-time, compressed frequent BD starting hopefully around 2-3 days before O then BDing through O, POSSIBLY rephresh - but only a tiny bit if I do use it, POSSIBLY Baby Aspirin, but not until I stop af since this is a pretty nasty, heavy period already and I've had bruising issues in the past with Baby Aspirin. I'm also drinking red raspberry leaf tea and peppermint tea.
Hoping for a New Year's Day BFP!!!!

[indigoviolet]

Hey everyone, hope you are having good weekends

Mocha- sorry AF showed, like you said, at least you didn't have to wait around for her and you can get on with the next cycle, FX for a new year BFP!

Good luck everyone attempting soon!

AFM, last few days started feeling really sick, ugh, didn't remember that it started this early...I know it is a good sign but I'm getting a bit depressed wondering how I will cope.

Don't quite dare put the pregnancy ticker up yet...

[indigoviolet]

yuzu- glad you are feeling a bit better. I think the relaxation is a really good idea, I was doing a lot of meditation and using a heating pad during relaxation sessions on the month I got pg with ds2 (after trying for 15 months). Think positive, fertile, healthy, relaxed etc It really works! I can send you a link of the free online meditation sessions I was listening to if you like?

[HopeandDreamG]

So my blood test was negative. BOOOOO and worse news I can't even ttc for December.... I'll be the

because I am totally having a Crohn's flare and need to get the flare under control so I can TTC for January's cycle... I'm really MAD I can't believe how long I waited to even ttc after the loss, my Due date will be here in Jan and I'm not even preggo. Just annoyed. My temp was due to the Crohns, and its still up like a low grade fever and I am in pain. My exhaustion was also due to the Crohns. What a tease!!! Now I am taking a steroid - which sways blue. Hoping to get off it, get back to diet strict and be ready for January. Start a new year fresh!!