Hi. You gave me a little hope when you said you conceived a daughter even though your DH had high PH. Did you sway? What was your attempt like? My ph is still 7.5 right after we BD. Perhaps I am getting mostly semen? But I had put Rephresh in 4 hours before the attempt and was 4.5 right before....so he must have ph off the chart. ARGH...this is frustrating. I put a finger Rephresh after our attempt....but I just know I have no chance to get a girl. I just wanted a 50/50 shot and I feel he is all boy. LOL. Anyway, I would love to hear (if you don't mind sharing) how you conceived your DD. Thanks!
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December 22nd, 2011, 01:12 AM #1Dreamer
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zanacal...question for you :)
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December 22nd, 2011, 01:30 AM #2Big Dreamer
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Her sway is posted in the girl sway forum.
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December 22nd, 2011, 04:42 AM #3
Hi - as Annabel said, my sway is in the girl sway forum.
I don't believe pH matters too much and I didn't test it close to my attempt (either before or after) because I believe the obsessing can raise testosterone and lower testosterone for a girl has more evidence than lower pH for a girl!
That said, I last used Rephresh 2 days before our attempt and I used 1/4 applicator of Aci-jel the night before and I did a Jump and Dump afterwards - I wanted to only have one attempt and do a Jump and Dump to limit the amount of semen in me. Are you using an antihistimine? The gels help to keep pH low in the V but I don't think that matters for more than a few minutes as the sperm are on their way pretty quickly. An antihistimine dries you up throughout your body and not just in that one area.2005
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December 22nd, 2011, 04:43 AM #4
Oh and I don't think a combined pH of 7.5 is too shabby anyway!
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December 22nd, 2011, 08:43 AM #5Dreamer
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Thank you. I read through your sway and see that your DH took some supplements to try and bring down his ph -- so awesome of him! I think it's too late for me since I'm expected to O on the 24th.
I used zyrtec with my other 2 attempts (O+12) but it dried me up soo much, and since I started using the RepHresh I have very little EWCM so figured maybe I didn't need an antihistamine to dry it up more. Hmmmm, you think I should take it? Which one did you take? Maybe I will take some...I'm totally freaking out now that all these boy swimmers are hanging out waiting for that egg....which antihistamine to people recommend the most?
I know I need to chill so I don't raise testosterone -- but I never swayed before...first time it was a "let's just pull the goalie and see what happens" and we got pregnant, second time was a momentarily lapse in judgement one night and poof, baby. So, I was not stressed or even thought about pregnancy too much to conceive the boys....do you think the opposite, stressing, might help sway girl? LOL
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December 22nd, 2011, 08:53 AM #6Dreamer
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Ok, I'm rethinking my sway and would love your advice. Here's how we got the boys (I never tested OPK so who knows when I really ovulated, but this was based on the website I used to track my AF).
DS1: we BD'd on days O-3 and O.
DS2: we BD'd on day O-3 (I think, originally I thought it was O-5 but I think I had a shorter cycle that month which is how I got pregnant unexpectedly)
Attempt 3: So far we have BD'd on days O-8, O-7, O-4, O-3...and now what, HELP! Should I do one or two more days and cut-off or stop. Maybe I shouldn't stop here bec looks like O-3 is BOY for me!
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December 22nd, 2011, 09:54 AM #7
I don't think it matters at all when you DTD in relation to O, it's the other stuff you have going on which matters. I can't remember whether you said DH was doing anything to lower sperm count, is he releasing on the days you don't DTD? That's important imo.
I'm thinking the O-8 and O-7 were likely too far away from O to get pregnant so you've had a couple of attempts in your fertile period. Are you wanting to have a cut-off or keep DTD until you've ovulated? If you want a cut-off then I would have at least one more attempt at O-2. Are you certain of when you'll O? If not, another tactic would be to keep DTD and make the last attempt the night of your +OPK - or just have DH release until then and make the night of your +OPK your 3rd attempt. It all depends how many attempts you want to have. I was happier having less attempts but moving them closer to O to stand a better chance of getting pregnant.
I would take a Zyrtek - probably over using the Rephresh for the reasons I mentioned above.2005
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December 22nd, 2011, 12:58 PM #8Dreamer
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December 22nd, 2011, 02:55 PM #9
I don't use IG - I looked at it a couple of times but didn't like it! I completely disagree that frequent BD/frequent release doesn't sway pink - but it has to be frequent enough! It worked for us anyhow
This is a good thread:
http://genderdreaming.com/forum/gend...pink-blue.html
Oh - and it's ok for DH to take aspirin and cranberry together but not DW.2005
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December 22nd, 2011, 04:10 PM #10Dreamer
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A woman on IG did extensive research studying over 200 charts on fertilityfriend.com and concluded only if you avoid O does it help to sway pink (her name is minervasmom, and I believe she did go on to have a successful girl sway after all of her research). What I also have read over and over on IG is that frequent BD does not sway pink bec of the constant introduction of semen (high ph) into our system which raises our ph levels to sway boy.