UK SMOG Wannabes ~ December

[Sunset]

HUGS kell - i too had a crap nights sleep - DH woke me up twice to tell me he felt ill......??? DS2 then woke up then ds1 and inbetween being woken up found it hard to get back to sleep as all i can see is that bloody penis looking like thing i saw on my scan.......I cant see that turning into anything girl like, am gutted i saw it i didnt think it would be at all obvious this early on

oh hun i know it doesn't make you feel better, but 13 weeks really is too early! the nub is still visible at that point which would make a potty shot look boy-ish. girls and boys do look so much alike at that gestation!!! your little bubs could well still be a girl, please try not to get too upset hun

[charlieispy]

THANKYOU x I still feel like i am out but the love and hugs mean alot x I love my 3 little boys just feel so alone in my home at times I just wished that I was going to be one of the lucky ones. I have seen so many 13wk potty shots that are boy or girl and am sure mine looks more like boy. Wish i was still in ignorant bliss!! I know it could change but I dont want to hope too much.

Hope you all have a lovely New year whatever you have planned x heres to 2012 being FAB

[chocolate]

Pinga - camping sounds fab, we went before having the kids but not since, not sure Ill want to do it though until our youngest is at least 3, and not whilst pregnant lol.

Kell, hope your DP got up, mine got up at 7am with the kids and I got up at 930am as havent slept well for 2 nights, sods law as Isaid the night before that I was sleeping so well and so easily lol

Inglewood, enjoy the cinema later, out of interest did you suspect twins early on? Any signs? I keep having these twins dreams and only imagine twins,wierd!

Maybe- yes Id love an adult room and a separate family room!

Sunset - I think its lovely for siblings to share, I think it makes them closer and more tolerable to each other and better at sharing. Ive seen some L shaped bunk beds which look pretty cool, means the bottom is seperate from the top so if one moves the one underneath doesnt rock lol. Maybe I could do the same design but with a cabin bed and seperate single under neath

[chocolate]

Charlie - I meant to say: I can completely understand why you are thinking boy, I would think that too (not by what you have seen) just because I am not a very positive person with myself and my dreams. Do you have any hope left for a girl? How do you feel? Just wondering if you are thinking 100% boy then maybe its best to find out? Then you can know for sure if boy or girl and be able to have time to think on it and then get excited. This is why I am not going to look at all at nubs/skull etc as one hint of a boy even without confirmation will have me think '100% boy and I may not enjoy the pregnancy as much.
However I think the skull of your bubs looks girly! And dont girls also have 3 mounds anyway the middle one being the nub which is always big to begin with and shrinks into the clitoris by about week 16?

[charlieispy]

promise to stop whinging on now - god i am sorry but i hope you understand my freaking out i know you probably do!!!

thanks chocolate ((())) thank you all for putting up with my freaking out!!

[chocolate]

baby 4 has more of a point at the top which if they have points girls are more at the top, boys by the eyebrows, your babies have great head shapes, cute lol! Itll be me freaking out soon lol. did that with ds2 but he had a very obvious boy nub! Which is why Im going to try so hard not to look at anything, easier said than done!

[Inglewood]

Chocolate, I had no idea there was 2 in there, although my 6wk 1d scan pic from when I was cramping showed 2 little white dots and my SIL when she saw the pic said that's twins and we all LAUGHED!!!! but since only 1 had a heart beat, the sonographer said only 1! I cramped badly with them boys early on and was really sick with ds2 (both 'can' be twin signs if severe). With dh being a twin, he always wondered, but I NEVER gave it a 2nd thought!!! lol I have actually kept alot better this pg than with ds2 from 14wks, think the huge weight loss pre-pg on my sway has helped!

Charlie, I think the skulls look different shapes? I'm no expert but try not stress, I went thru MANY stressful days and still do worry, but why don't u book a gender scan in a few wks to know either way?

[deaks66]

Ar charlie i really feel for you hun! i will feel exactly same when it is eventually my turn. The skull is definately a different shape to your ds3's. Here is the link on IG about skull shapes in case you hadnt managed to find it...

For fun - Skull shape tells gender 92% accurate - In-Gender.com

Its not possible to determine whether a baby has a pointy head from a profile shot, but the prominent forehead definately looks girly in your shot But then charliecats on IG has stated that you cant determine gender from skull shape at this age and that it is just for fun.

Might be worth you having a gender scan to set your mind at rest either way. I wound myself up good and proper about ds2 but knowing one way or the other definately helped. Keeping my fx for a little girl for you! X

[deaks66]

oh and charlie, my friends 15 week scan still had a very prominent clitorus bulge/nub and has since been confirmed girl

[threelittlemenandcounting]

Grrrr great start to my new years eve, Dh been grumpy meaning we had an argument and now im totally fed up !!! sorry for the moan