swayers over 35 buddy group

[Mochagirl]

My Mom had me, her only girl after 3 boys in October, so I'll console myself if I don't get my BFP this month with the thought that maybe I'm meant to have my only girl in October too. My DD would be right around my birthday, too, which is October 15th.

[lemon2012]

Thanks for the birthday wishes and support!

Mocha..how much rephresh did you use????
I have some symptoms but not sure what is going on as I think they are normal before AF. I am due in two days..not spotting this month...which is usually normal for me.
Does your mom remember any tricks to have a girl???lol!

[Mochagirl]

According to my Mom, she didn't do anything different to have me. She was older by then, though (33 - which seems young to me, but she started having babies at 23), and I think she was probably a little thinner from running after 3 young boys.

I didn't use much rephresh. I used 1/3-1/2 tube 3 times, with the last application about 3 days before O. If I don't get my BFP this month I'll probably drop it completely next month.

[PeonyPrincess]

Well it is officially 2012 (in Australia anyway!) Happy New Year. 2012 has a good vibe to it, so I hope to see lots of BFPs (mine included!) I am not surprised there have not been as many posts as normal. What a crazy busy time of year. GL to everyone TTC in January!!

[lemon2012]

According to my Mom, she didn't do anything different to have me. She was older by then, though (33 - which seems young to me, but she started having babies at 23), and I think she was probably a little thinner from running after 3 young boys.

I didn't use much rephresh. I used 1/3-1/2 tube 3 times, with the last application about 3 days before O. If I don't get my BFP this month I'll probably drop it completely next month.

Isn't that always the way....I did nothing and got a girl...ugh!

Did you use the rephresh right before dtd or in the morning?
OOTB...are you using rephresh next time?

I have cramping and spotting....so back to ttc!
My plan is to go loose on everything and just try! I am 38 and maybe it is not that easy for me anymore. DS1 was second month trying and DS 2 was an oops....back when I was younger!

Mocha...it sounds like you did a great job!
Good luck!

PS: Thanks peony!!!

[Mochagirl]

lemon - dh and I dtd every day starting 6 days before O and ending 1 day before O (I would have liked to get one more attempt in, but DH was done at that point - esp after releasing daily for 6 days before we started our attempts). I used rephresh 9 days before ), 6 days before O and 3 days before O - only a little each time, and always in the morning, about 12 hours before our attempt. If I don't get my BFP this month I won't be using rephresh at all next month.

[indigoviolet]

Good luck to all you lovely ladies on this thread, will be praying for lots of BFP's! I'm sure there will be LOTS of 2012 babies!

ooooh Mocha, your chart is looking good

[Mochagirl]

Thanks, Indigo. The high temps are promising, but I don't like there being no implantation dip - I've always gotten them with my other pregnancies....

[indigoviolet]

there could be loads of reasons for no dip, some of my pg I had them, others not. FX for you!

[Mochagirl]

Thanks, Indigo