TTC Girl - January 2012

[lemon2012]

It is funny because I think the same thing....FR sways girl...as it depletes over time..is that what you think?
The only difference is that twice a day is overkill when DH is not used to it...I just think your body adjusts. A lot of men release and think nothing of it, so they need twice a day. My DH never ever releases....I believe him. So, last month when we bd and FR 9 times in 6 days,....well, it just wasn't the same! He was able to perform but barely. Does that make sense?
Anyone else contribute?

I also think abstaining sways girl.
Same reason...the boys die off first.

So, here is the funny part...DS 2 was a 2 day cut off and abstain. I still believe it...lol!

[pinkin2011]

It is hard for me because we tried to get d/h to abstain and by the 6th day that was it he just cant do it.....So really we have no other choice but to f/r. I do think twice a day is over kill but i think twice a day every third day is good.

[lemon2012]

pinkin2011...do you think age matters?
I ask because you look so young and maybe younger dh should release more often. DH actually looked it up (as I said he was not keen on subsituting the real thing for hot water) and he said that the internet basically says your body responds to your needs. If DH releases a lot then I think he would have to do it more often as his body will replenish often. But, if DH does not release a lot then maybe a few releases do the same thing.
Just my theory. Next month, DH will not be doing tooooo much,....I want the spermies in me

How is it going?
When is your o day?

[xokatietatie]

I just broke down and cried to DH about how badly I want this little girl, and in an effort to make me smile he said "I'd kiss your tears but we're not allowed to have salt." It worked, and I laughed. Just thought you all might enjoy that.

[lemon2012]

I just broke down and cried to DH about how badly I want this little girl, and in an effort to make me smile he said "I'd kiss your tears but we're not allowed to have salt." It worked, and I laughed. Just thought you all might enjoy that.

So cute Katie, Hang on to that one!!!!!

And remember, you are soooo young. It might not make you feel different right now as you desperately want your little girl, but I am 38 and feel the same way.
It will happen!!!!
Hang in there!
The salt cannot be that high!!!

[lemon2012]

KATIE

[pinkin2011]

Well Lemon I was thinking the same thing the mens bodies would just keep working on new batches as soon as one is released.. OOHHHH i dont know i just hope that by the time i am ready for my attempt that 2 times in that one day of attempt is enough.. I am going to get him to release just once a day now until the 8th. I am due to o ( I think ) on the 9th or 10th but my opks are still not that negative.. so i think i may o a bit earlier.

I am 27 by the way and d/h is 29

[pinkin2011]

awww Katie how sweet is your d/h!!!!! xx

[lemon2012]

Hello, You are young pinkin2011!!!
I think I meant that DH will replenish but the difference is in lowering the sperm count. If you release often your body will know that and replenish better. If you are not a fr then your body will not be as quick to keep them going.
Zanacal did FR twice a day bc DH already released once a day so she really want to change things and have him deplete even more.
So, maybe just do more than he does...but not overkill if he is not a FR.
Just my thoughts.....hopefully someone else can add in.
How many attempts are you doing?
Will you use rephresh or anything?

GOOD LUCK!

[xokatietatie]

We're about the same age! I'm 26.