Cinss, Atomic, Hobber - thanks so much for your help. You ladies are awesome! I will get a BBT - will order on Amazon if I cant find it. Also, I tried charting on fertility friend but stopped after the ear thermometer fiasco! I am maintaining a calendar though with my observations minus the tempting.

Atomic, thanks for the warning - I have so much to learn. i was still checking my cervix everyday to see what the CM was like but what you say makes sense. I will stop ASAP!