Uk SMOG Wannabes ~ January

[deaks66]

Woke up this morning and you were the first thing i thought about babymad, giving you another big virtual hug and thinking of you. Oh and we're off to Norfolk today for a windy/rainy romp on wells beach and a second viewing on a cottage Babymad, we should meet up there one day! X

[chocolate]

Hi everyone, hope ur all having a good weekend, been to the cinema with my 3 year old, too many sweets for me!!! Finally heard the placenta on the doppler, been trying for ages and only heard possible movements, the placenta was tucked far over to the left hand side, almost where I'd class as out of womb area. Its also right next to my artery or something so easy to miss it, just hope I hear the heartbeat soon. I really hope the ramzi theory works for me, but knowing me ill be in that rare 3 percent of it not being right ha ha!

[Lavenderlime]

Deaks have a lovely day in Norfolk looking at cottages sounds devine!

Chocolate ooh what does a placenta sound like? Sounds promising being on the left! Really hope it's your little girl in there! will you be going for an early sexing scan at the same place your going to you 8 week scan?

My friend with her two little boys one ds1 age the other only two weeks older than ds2 came to play today , the boys had a great time. Lots of boys really are fun and good company!

How are all those bumps coming allong? Is everyone through the worst of the sickness?
Now just having a sofa day before work later, can't afford to pull another sickie as much as I want to will just have to soldier on.

[chocolate]

Lavenderlime, hope you feel better soon. I have days where if I dont eat the right way/amount then I start to feel sick, I find having too much to eat is the worse for it, so find a thick milkshake for brekkie sorts that out, and then just a small mid-morning meal/snack.

The placenta noise is like a whistling/windy noise, can't mistake that one like you could a heartbeat, really hope its a good sign, I thought it was to the left at 6 week scan but never asked because I felt silly and couldn't trust my interpretation so will def. ask at the private scan seeing as Im paying for it. If it is left then I know Ill think girl in the back of my head which I dont really want to but gotta be better than hearing right side! Still dont want to know gender because even if I hear girl Ill worry something will snatch my dream away, gender desire sucks!

[Babymad]

Woke up this morning and you were the first thing i thought about babymad, giving you another big virtual hug and thinking of you. Oh and we're off to Norfolk today for a windy/rainy romp on wells beach and a second viewing on a cottage Babymad, we should meet up there one day! X

Thanks Deaks, means a lot xxx
Hope you have a lovely week-end, it would be great to meet up Where do you stay when you go?
I didn't have the best night, and that awful bit when you wake up and for a split second none of it was true.....then reality kicks in! I feel like I must be a really bad person or something as everywhere I turn there are baby girls and it's like someone wants me to feel worse than I already do! A girl sat next to me today with a 6 week old girl, it hurt like hell
Have you done your attempt yet??

[Babymad]

Wow babymad some people just say the most stupid things! I think with the comments about it being a possible girl, I find they make me smile now. I just say when people ask that I don't know the sex but I feel boy because I know boys and am a boy mum and have kept all my boys things. No one ever says after that they hope a girl is on it's way. To be honest I get more '3 - you must be mad!' comments. Again I just laugh. Not many people could hack three kids and my job but I like my hectic full little life.

If you need any boys things let me know. I can photograph my bits and post you what ever you like. Stay strong it will be a bit better tomorrow but I think it might hurt for a while yet x

Thanks Maybe xx I was so certain when we did PDG that I would never have any more children naturally and if the PDG didn't work I would be complete with 3 children, but because we found out that DH could make girls ( I honestly thought he couldn't) and because we lost our little girl I struggled to let my dream go! But I did give every item of boys clothes away as I was so certain If I needed baby clothes again they would be pink.....you just never know what's round the corner...!!
So if you have any baby bits spare that would be great, but dont worry if you don't as you'll be needing them just as much as much as me

[Babymad]

Hope work goes ok Lavender x
Chocolate ~ exciting! Hope it's a good pink sign x

Hi everyone else, hope you are all having a good weekend x

[maybebabythree]

Babymad I'm quite a bit ahead of you so I won't need the sizes the same time as you plus I have way to much! I will work out how best to get some photos online then you can see if you like anything and I will post them on. Seems silly to buy lots of newborn and 0-3 if I can help out.

[Wishing4Pink]

I'm so so sorry you never heard the words you so wanted to hear Babymad. I can believe they made those comments while doing your scan, some people just don't think! Take all the time you need to grieve, every one of us on here is here for you. Sending lots of huge hugs and love your way, one step at a time <3 xx

[deaks66]

Thanks Deaks, means a lot xxx
Hope you have a lovely week-end, it would be great to meet up Where do you stay when you go?
I didn't have the best night, and that awful bit when you wake up and for a split second none of it was true.....then reality kicks in! I feel like I must be a really bad person or something as everywhere I turn there are baby girls and it's like someone wants me to feel worse than I already do! A girl sat next to me today with a 6 week old girl, it hurt like hell
Have you done your attempt yet??

Hi hun, that feeling of waking up and forgetting for a split second then remembering is sheer torture. I do hope it gets easier for you really quickly. I seem to remember constantly crying for about 4 days and then it started to get easier daily. I guess it will be harder for you than that but it WILL get easier.

We stay in various places when we go to norfolk but generally somewhere between wells and Holt. I just love it over there so much. However, after our second viewing today i think we have probably decided to sell our current house and buy our forever house somewhere rural round here instead of buying a second home over there. Just not sure what we would gain other than the beach nearby when we did visit but then we made a successful day trip to the beach today so probably we should just do that more often! But we will still visit as much as possible so you should just let me know when you are holidaying there and we could come over for a play on the beach!!!! Sooooo much fun! X