TTC Girl - January 2012

[littlemissnaughty7]

oh pink huni im sorry u got a BFN, but dont count your chickens before they have hatched, il pray you wll still get a BFP huni,

[HopeandDreamG]

Surgena its is so stressful with F/R and trying to get O right! Mine took forever to come my poor dh f/r for 21 or 22 days then i ended up with a 3 day cut off because i thought i had oed!! anyway next time around i might try the release where you use the third batch in 24hrs.. will see.

WELL BFN! I knew it would be anyway but i am still sad about it. I just hope testing at 10dpo is too early for me because i have long cycles.. I can only hope cant i! I wont be having a attempt in feb because i will be having a very busy month!! Thanks everyone tho for watching and being excited for me!! Maybe March will be my month!!

Your not out yet!!!

[HopeandDreamG]

Let me think.... 18th once, 19th twice, 20th twice, 21st once.

And also, mind, he's been FR since January 8th, at least once a day, and sometimes three times a day! i.e. on the 19th, he FR two times in the day and our first attemp was the third, etcetera.

Even last night, he was so tired that he fell asleep while I tried to get our son to fall asleep, and when I got in bed he rolled over and sleepily said, "Okay, let's go!"

Poor thing. He did so good this month. We'll see, I guess... but doubt anything came from it. I have felt cramps very mildly the past few days. Part of me feels like it's just all his (TMI) sperm jabbing around in there going, "Hey, WTF?! Where's the egg, yo?"

You got five attempts in there! Thats great. Now if you can just relax O will come and the spermies will be waiting!!

[suregena]

Surgena...what happened? No o yet? Sorry! Sounds like you are busy!
You have a lot of attempts..are you in two week wait or waiting to o? I am confused!

Well, my period ended January 11th (CD 1 was January 5th) and I was due to O around January 18th. I didn't start testing until the 15th, then I started getting paranoid that O was early and I somehow missed it, but I waited until the 18th while testing to see, and I had no positive OPKs. I had seemingly fertile symptoms, though... high cervix, some fertile CM, etcetera, so we went ahead and started DTD on the 18th. But I've still been getting negative OPKs, so now I'm giving up. I'm just so confused...

I'm hoping that maybe the cheapie tests were just no good and maybe we hit ovulation without me really knowing except through actual signs.

I've been having mild twinge/cramping today... so I don't know what THAT is about. My OPK is still negative (have done two today) and I think my cervix feels ever so slightly lower now. So, I just don't know.

My lesson: even if over eBay pregnancy tests have worked for you in the past, spend a little more on OPKs....

You are confused... so am I! :P

AF is due around February 1st, so we'll see...

[pinkin2011]

Geeze Katie I would take that as a sign for sure!!!!!!!!!!!!!! That is really spooky kind of

[HopeandDreamG]

Hope, things are looking very promising for you for February. I look at the moon signs as well. Just one more thing to add to my sway and make me feel good about it.

I am excited. My plan is totally set, and I can't think of one more thing that could make my sway any better! Can't wait for February!!

[pinkin2011]

Thanks Littlemiss and HOPE.... I know its still early but you know how we just get a feeling like someone could do a test and get a bfn and say no way I KNOW i am preg and end up preg! Well I feel like the bfn is correct I am out! But yeah I am nuts and will still waste my money on more tests

[pinkin2011]

Good Luck Hope cant wait to hear about your attempt

[HopeandDreamG]

Thanks..I can't wait for it either!

[PeonyPrincess]

Katie, all of this is certainly worth praying about. I hope it was a sign for you.
I looked into the moon signs as it was recommended to me by a naturopath who has been using them, as well as diet, to help women with natural gender selection for the past 10 years. Her clients have had a lot of success, so I thought I would include it. When I was on IG, I asked people who knew their O date in 2011 and the gender they were having, and it was accurate for 13 out of 15 of them. It is certainly not 100% guaranteed, so I just think of it as one extra part of my sway that I can include. For example, this month I am expecting to O during a Pisces (girl) moon, in a new moon, and I am also doing the girl diet. It just comes down to what kind of sway each person is happy doing so that they have no regrets whatever the outcome.