Uk SMOG Wannabes ~ January

[charlieispy]

ooooh maybe all those clothes sound lovely bless your boys!! Cant wait to get my new buggy have a play lol - then will need to store it away - luckily have garage space although will need to rearrange my other buggies! Obsessed yes....but all second hand so not quite so naughty

well my black dress wont do up on my bump so going to have to wear it with the button undone at the back and wear a cardi and REMEMBER not to take it off x i dont really wear black so only have this one dress.....which i love but unfortunately is now my 'funeral' dress. Better start getting ready as it begins at 11 x x hope you are all ok

babymad been thinking of you x

[indigoviolet]

All this shopping is making me jealous lol, Maybe, all those clothes etc sound so cute, funny how the boys didn't cotton on!
pram sounds super Charlie, I will start browsing soon....hope the funeral goes as OK as it can.

Babymad- thinking of you what I find annoying is that one of us can't go through the GD, we all (or a lot of us) have to go through it and slog it out until it gets better. Wish there was a magic spell just to take the GD away. It sucks and is just NOT fair. Praying you start to feel little improvements soon. What is amazing is that people do get over it and don't look back, praying this happens for you fast. Stay strong hun.

[Petal]

Hi ladies!!

Oh babymad, congrats on your little boy! Im soooo sorry you didnt hear girl, i know exactly how you feel hun. Its just not fair sometimes :-( you did ALL you could do to sway the odds so just remember this little boy is just meant to be in this world with your lovely family, wow hes gonna be so loved, all your sons are gorgeous! It will take some time to get used to i know but as time goes on it will get easier, thinking of you x x

I live an hour and a half away from Wells and North Norfolk and we often pop up there for a day out so id defo be up for a smog meeting in the summer, that would be great :-)))

Maybe, i soo know what you mean about pushchairs! they are just the best part (other than the baby) haha. I love mine although its so big i just love it!

Ds3 and i had our check up today at the docs, we are both fine and i was given a prescription to go back on the pill, my doc said 'considering your age i suggest you go on this one' i was like are you calling me old lol, He said well at 31 your fertility isnt what it was!! how rude lol.

Lovely sunny day here today :-)
Love to you all x x

[maybebabythree]

maybebaby not long to go!!

Just as well. If I don't burst from excitement soon I will burst from my massive growth spurt! It's like 100* Christmases in one! Give it a few months I will moaning about lack of sleep lol!

[maybebabythree]

Omg petal I'm 37 which seems to be a 'young mum' in Surrey. Possibly as you to hit 40 before you can buy a house around here. Not sure what I will do after dave comes. Dh still plans the snip which I think is for the best. But then it's no ivf and no baby ever. Dh says we can talk about it after the birth but tbh were both getting on now. Worked out I might be 50 and still standing outside junior school like the boys gran!!!

My sis has my pram but I am itching to get my hands on it!!!

[Babymad]

ALL of this is exactly how I felt when I found out I was carrying DS7... not DD1. How different you picture your life to be, how cruel life is instead. I too didn't tell DH. I went to the scan in secret with my sister (told him I went shopping). I had to live with the sadness for another 8 days until the "official sexing scan" was. I cried so hard for those 8 days so when it came time to find out with DH & my 6 boys I wan't so sad. I never wanted my boys to see me sad about another boy so had to do it to prepare myself.
Fast forward 9 months and my DS7 is 3 months old and the sweetest, cutest (largest - ouch!), most perfect addition to the family. Of course I'm still sad about not having a DD. I am desperate for her but every day gets easier. You can overcome GD. I have several times!
I believe everything happens for a reason. Stay strong sweetheart. I know precisely how you feel. (((((hugs))))

Thanks for your post, really kind xx
Trying my hardest to be strong......
I appreciate you taking the time to send hugs, I could really do with them right now.
Enjoy your boys and thanks again xx

[Babymad]

Thanks for your thoughts everyone.....you've all been so kind xxx

[Inglewood]

Hi Ladies,

Babymad, I have thought about you lots and hoping ur ok? Did u tell DH? or will you wait? I can't begin to imagine how you must feel esp after conceiving ur girl thru PGD. I hope as the weeks pass things get easier. xx

[Lavenderlime]

Hi ladies just checking in probably won't be on as much over the next two weeks as our internet is down and just waiting for a new router to be sent out but will try and keep up on my phone.

[Dreaming]

Babymad - I just came across your post kind of by accident. It made me cry. I wish things had been different. I know you will love your little boy more than anything and it will be just fine when he arrives, but I'm thinking of you right now and sending the biggest of hugs your way xx