swayers over 35 buddy group

[KraizyDaizy]

Just have to vent. WTF? So I'm on D9 and no EWCM at all yet. I usually start around D6/D7, like a day or two after AF. What the heck is going on up in there? I guess maybe I'm really not meant to have a third. boo hoo. Thanks for letting me vent!

Of course you are mean to have a third. It's okay to vent. I am guessing your cycle is just a bit off or maybe your diet has started to dry up your CM? are you on Clomid?

[KraizyDaizy]

Hi everyone, just thought I would drop in and say hello - I am new here, will officially be over 35 on our first attempt for a DD in April!

We're going to do the FGD and "sperm-meets-egg-plan" so that we can get pg fast - I only have one tube and am at increased risk for ectopic (I've had one before) so trying for months and months makes me REALLY nervous.

Anyone else have a history of ectopic? If so, do you think that swaying affects it at all?

Hi Ribbons! Welcome! I have never had an ectopic so I am not much help there. I am trying the sperm-meets-the-egg-plan with a few alterations LOL DTD straight through O with no skipping day 4.

[ILindGurl]

I'm not on the diet or clomid. I'm not swaying anymore, remember so I have no idea why my CM is not cooperating.
I am also doing the SPERM MEETS EGG PLAN to maximize our chances of conceiving (since we recently had a chemical)
Sperm Meets Egg Plan

[KraizyDaizy]

I'm not on the diet or clomid. I'm not swaying anymore, remember so I have no idea why my CM is not cooperating.
I am also doing the SPERM MEETS EGG PLAN to maximize our chances of conceiving (since we recently had a chemical)
Sperm Meets Egg Plan

I am sorry I get mixed up on who is who and what kind of sway or not sway they are doing. Maybe I am getting all your CM this month since I have way more than I have had in well years LOL!!! I am thinking its the Clomid but that goes against everything that I have heard about it. I am so sorry about your chemical. I know that is so devastating.

[myGirl]

myGirl -- just wanted to say I feel like we are fertility buddies!!
I'm also 40 and my DH is 41 (turns 42 in Sept!). And I also have a 25 day cycle with ovulation usually on D12.

Also, I know a 40 year old who did fertility acupunture to help her get pregnant -- she did it a few months before she conceived her son. GL!!

4140 2007 2009

Hi everyone,
Good to see some action on the swayers over 35 board!
I think I am cd 7 and I hope to o on Valentines Day but it looks more like it is going to be sooner.
For some reason I o on ced 12 or 14 or sometime in between. I wish it was more obvious and I could just relax and dtd with no question.

Good question for kd...does clomid help uterine lining?
I used it in the past bc I did not ovulate.
I have read a lot about accupuncture and I would like to try it but I have not had a lot of time lately.
Also, it is a lot of money and I do not have a lot of coverage for naturopathic medicine.
It might be something for those of us over 35 to try!!!

ilundgirl, 3 months is not bad...and really it might have been part of the process of trying again,...no regrets!
iilundgirl and my girl, I had a 26 day cycle and I ovulated on cd 12...same thing!
Were you like that before? Or, was it bc of vitex?

GL everyone!

ilundgirl and Lemon2012 -

We are cycle buddies for sure! I am on CD9 today and I always have had 25 day cycles - I'm hoping the Vitex doesn't change that (I just started it on CD1 this cycle).

Good luck to all the ladies ttc this month!

[myGirl]

Welcome Ribbons!

I will also begin my TTC adventure in April (well maybe March 30). I have never had an ectopic, sorry to hear about that. I don't know if it would sway one way or the other.

Good luck and I look forward to following your journey!

[lemon2012]

Hi everyone,
I am owing today..crazy..day 11 I think....?

Does the sperm meet egg p,an mean I have to bd today...lol?
We did o -5, 4, 2 and 1
Sounds boy now that I write it....do I really have to keep going....ugh, procreation is not the same as recreation!

[auroara78]

LOL Lemon @ "procreation is not the same as recreation!"

I'd give it another shot...really, what's one more attempt? :P

[sweetsister]

Lemon, yes do one more and even after that,you never regret too many just regret thinking i should of done another,right?Well i always do anyways,sounds like were almost on the same cycle i think i will be cracking an egg this evening or tomorrow?i hope anyways ive done 2 attempts already and now hope i dont get tired and quit early i know what u mean uugg

[ILindGurl]

Lemon -- yes, keep going!! GL

I still haven't O'd...or gotten any EWCM...no idea what is going on (only -OPK) so maybe I'm O'ing late this cycle? ugh.