TTC Girl - February 2012

**Mochagirl** · February 15th, 2012, 05:13 PM

Have there been any updates from suregena? I've been thinking about her and hope she's ok.

**pinkin2011** · February 15th, 2012, 05:30 PM

Lemon, I get a feeling usually on o day of being uncomfortable in my lower tummy and bowl area.. Then all of a sudden which the last to cycles have been in the late pm I start to get real bad pain which feels like its in my bowl area and it hurts!!! It is so painful to even dtd. So I got the real bad bad pain about 8pm and it lasted all night id say because i went to bed at 11pm and it was BAD then.. when i woke up it was still there but no where near what it was the night before , we dtd at 6am and was still a bit uncomfortable to dtd.. So I am not sure when my body actually releases the egg?? I am not even counting dpo this month because i dont feel confident so I am just not interested at all! We only dtd once at 6am because i only just made up my mind after talking to my d/h and decided to go ahead , d/h had already released 2 times that day and we tried to dtd when i got the pains but it just wasnt happening for him... soooo had no choice but to wait until 6am, have no one to blame but myself for that because i should of made up my mind earlier and dtd on his second release !! Oh well cant change it now i can only hope next month is better!!

**pinkin2011** · February 15th, 2012, 05:32 PM

sorry just read over that its meant to say my last two cycles i have noticed the pain in the pm

**Mochagirl** · February 15th, 2012, 05:54 PM

Lemon, although my O pain is nothing like yours, I must say that my strongest O pains actually come about 2 days before O, which I confirm with temperature.

**lemon2012** · February 15th, 2012, 06:03 PM

Thanks mocha and pinkin!

Once is better than nothing pinkin....and you never know

We blew it with too many right out of the gate....and I am oing late in the cycle.

I still have clear Ewcm and it is minimal but totally there.
I am not sure how interested either of us will be as we did not sleep at all.
Oh, and dh now has recharged his sperm....
What to do?

**lemon2012** · February 15th, 2012, 06:05 PM

Originally Posted by pinkin2011

Lemon, I get a feeling usually on o day of being uncomfortable in my lower tummy and bowl area.. Then all of a sudden which the last to cycles have been in the late pm I start to get real bad pain which feels like its in my bowl area and it hurts!!! It is so painful to even dtd. So I got the real bad bad pain about 8pm and it lasted all night id say because i went to bed at 11pm and it was BAD then.. when i woke up it was still there but no where near what it was the night before , we dtd at 6am and was still a bit uncomfortable to dtd.. So I am not sure when my body actually releases the egg?? I am not even counting dpo this month because i dont feel confident so I am just not interested at all! We only dtd once at 6am because i only just made up my mind after talking to my d/h and decided to go ahead , d/h had already released 2 times that day and we tried to dtd when i got the pains but it just wasnt happening for him... soooo had no choice but to wait until 6am, have no one to blame but myself for that because i should of made up my mind earlier and dtd on his second release !! Oh well cant change it now i can only hope next month is better!!

Oh, I see why you have the o plus bd then!
If that I'd the case you are probably more like o and a few hours maybe???
Does anyone think that since dh released a lot over the last two weeks it will make a difference even though we have not bd in 2 days?

**pinkin2011** · February 15th, 2012, 06:15 PM

Lemon I think you need to have d/h release for 7/10 days straight and then start dtd.. I wouldnt miss two days and then start again because i think is sperm count would be fairly high without releasing for 2 days??? If we had of missed one day i would make d/h release twice or 3 times.. If you could get d/h to release twice and then dtd on the 3rd that is an option BUT If he is anything like my d/h 2 times in a day is a HUGE effort!

As for my attept yes i think it was o plus a few hrs but i just cant be totally sure which is a bummer but i guess will find out soon enough the outcome!

**prayforprincess** · February 15th, 2012, 06:50 PM

Lemon-- If you missed 2 days I would definitely have dh release 1-2 times before you bd. Are you dtd everyday this cycle?? I am confused....what is your bd plan -- or shall I ask, what has it become now?

Thanks for responses -- it really helps. I took an opk at 5:30 and it was negative so big relief. But I got paranoid and used a whole application of rephresh at 3pm today just incase so now I messed up my rephresh plan. Oh well, I can just continue to take it every 3 days. Taking it today early was 2 1/4 days after my last full app.

**lemon2012** · February 15th, 2012, 07:23 PM

Thanks everyone!
He did yesterday in the am as we were going to bd last night thinking it was o day....then ds1 started to be sick.
He tried this am...nothing...could not do it.
Other than one day we have bd though....and he is 39!

Guess I will take the chance....?

**amari** · February 15th, 2012, 09:15 PM

Hey, lemon! Just trying to catch up! What did you end up doing with your attempt? Sorry it got messed up. Maybe it worked out for the best, FX!

KD-That's great news! I've never had progesterone levels taken, but hope this is it for you! What was your attempt like?

Hello to all the other ladies!!

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