TTC Girl - February 2012

[littlemissnaughty7]

but after those 2 positive i had 2 negative tests yesterday ?

[rainbowflower]

a positive is a positive - it shows the right amount of hormone was there needed to show a surge... it could have been negative afterwards for several reasons, perhaps you were more hydrated, perhaps you hadn't held pee in for as long, the hormone finds it easier to get into the urine at different times of the day than others, etc.

[littlemissnaughty7]

aggghhhh its all driving me mad lol,

[rainbowflower]

I don't know if it's worked yet for a sway, but we BDed 3 times within 24hrs when we got a pos OPK.. and then got a BFP!
if you are only going to have one attempt I'd do it at pos OPK rather than try for O+12, especially as you don't know exactly when O+12 is.. at least that way you know you will have swimmers in there ready and waiting for the egg to pop out!

[littlemissnaughty7]

so we should of done it yesterday then

[rainbowflower]

no, OV day will likely be today so today is still a good fertile day for catching the egg (usually the day after the pos OPK, but as said above it can be 12-48hrs later) I'd go make that baby tonight personally, or as soon as you can!

[littlemissnaughty7]

i just really wanted to try a 0+12, i knew this would happen lol, does it make a difference that i had no symptoms yesterday but today i have O pain ?

[prayforprincess]

Littlemiss- Stress is the worst thing you can do before you are trying to concieve. It is nearly proven to sway blue where as timing is not proven to sway in any direction. In fact, timing has been disproven over and over again.
Do not hang on to a myth about timing and risk stressing yourself out and missing the egg all together wasting all your hard work this month.
Hang onto what yor have already worked so hard to do and things that are proven to sway, like diet, glucose, and hormone level.
Just dtd now! You are running out of time. Plus, the older you get the less hours your egg lives. In the beginning it does live for roughly 24 hours, but after 35 it lives for only 12 hours max. That is why o+12 is not ideal for all couples. I am not sure your age but I would just dtd now.

[prayforprincess]

i just really wanted to try a 0+12, i knew this would happen lol, does it make a difference that i had no symptoms yesterday but today i have O pain ?

no, and every month is different. I did not have any o pain on the night I ovulated but I did for 36 hours after. You can't go by o pains as they change like the weather. So does your cm etc. etc.
You are playing with fire trying to wait and time like that. Good luck.

[HopeandDreamG]

Littlemiss- I agree with PFP and rainbow. Good luck. No stress allowed!

PrayforP- when u test to early I'll remind you that your testing to early and that your bfp is coming

So it's finally here, tonight is dtd time!!! Been waiting months and months. Just did rephresh won't do anymore. Went to test CM from cervix- NOTHING I guess the clomid. Almost didn't do the rephresh but did anyway.

My dh is all stuffy has sinus issues is there something he should not be taking? He just took a sudafed. Is this a problem? I know for us it can be good what about dh??