swayers over 35 buddy group

[KraizyDaizy]

Thank you all for the warm welcome! I am 5dpo and have very mixed feelings. On the one hand I would love to give my son a sibling, because he is already 4 years old. But on the other hand I am already scared of having GD again. I don´t feel my sway has been good. And after trying with HT this is all a big gamble for me. Would be testing 9dpo too soon?

Welcome Chessika! I am a and started at 8DPO last cycle and it just made me a basket case, so you would think I would be leaning more towards testing later, but no, I will probably torture myself again this cycle. I would use some very good tests like FRER and not the internet cheapies if I were testing at 9DPO. Many blessings to you and your little pink dream.

[mydream]

Chessika -
I know how you are feeling..the mixed emotions...
I am pulling for you !

[KraizyDaizy]

WARNING TMI....

Okay ladies, how much does blood affect your PH? Last month somehow I got an "owie" or hurt myself down there while DTD and had some blood show up. Thought maybe it was O spotting, but I beleive it was Atomic who set me straight that I probably got an "owie" instead. Well last night we did not DTD till this AM and well after there was some blood? He is not rough so I really don't know how it happened. Will this wreck my chances cause the PH will be out of girly range? Can you bleed or spot and have any chances of getting preggers? In despiration, I had him give me a sample in a cup and insert it after I cleaned myself up a bit so maybe that sample might have a chance in there?? I know the cup gives me more chances of a boy, but at this point if I cannot get pregnant, there is no chance of a girl either.

[Flava]

KD- for sure you have a chance for a girl! Ph don't really matter I don't think there is really girly or boyish pH .And why would a cup use have more chance for a boy? Just because it's hold the sperms inside? I think it gives more chance for a bfp not for a boy.

[KraizyDaizy]

KD- for sure you have a chance for a girl! Ph don't really matter I don't think there is really girly or boyish pH .And why would a cup use have more chance for a boy? Just because it's hold the sperms inside? I think it gives more chance for a bfp not for a boy.

Well I have read that you need to lower sperm count and that is supposed to give more girls a chance, so the cup would pool them all together making more boys heading for the egg. But I think my DH swimmers are low so I am doing whatever I can to just get pregnant at this point.

I got pregnant with my last two boys with cups, thinking they swayed girl, but only the Diva's are supposed to, but with my retro-flexed or tilted uterus, my cervix just does not seem to fit well with the Diva and only the Instead Soft Cups work for me. I just think this is my time to have a girl so I am trying anything right now.

[Flava]

Well if it makes you feel better I did MSU with IC on Ig for a boy and got a girl! So cup don't matter lol

[KraizyDaizy]

Well if it makes you feel better I did MSU with IC on Ig for a boy and got a girl! So cup don't matter lol

Flava, you just know how to make a girl feel better about her sway LOL!!!

[Son4meplz]

Hi Everyone,

Glad to find this thread for over 35 swayers, thanks for starting this. I would like to join this group. I am 36 and will be 37 in July. I am TTC boy and have been wishing for a boy since 2007. There were lot of family and other issues in the past but this year i am all set to do my attempt. Rest is in god's hands ...i'm going to chase him to grant me my wish.

We actually did our attempt today and i am freaking about the timing. I posted my question in a separate thread and then saw this one. So, i am postig it here too...plz share your opinions.


Yesterday night around 12 PM, i got smiley face and so, as planned decided to do my attempt right then and there. Everything was going perfect but just before my hubby could finish, my daughter started crying...we tried to hurry...but he could not concentrate and i had to go. I spent almost 45 mins to put her back to sleep and after that my hubby could not perform

I then decided to just skip this month n we just went to sleep. However, in the morning i just couldn't handle missing/skipping another month and so decided to give it another try. Long story short, we BD'd around 12:30 PM today...almost 12-13 hrs after first Smiley face. Earlier my plan was to BD ASAP once i get smiley. I'm not sure when do i ovulate after +OPK. Though my LH surge went negative around 3 PM. Was i too late??

Also, what about the swimmers from last night...which he could not release....is that good or bad for TTC boy?? I had 2 big O last night but only one okay one today...and overall, we were not happy with everything ...so it was not as hot as we had thought.

I'm really freaking out thinking that i must be in the GIRL zone O time wise?? Plz share your honest opinions.

[mydream]

Welcome Son4meplz- I don't really have an answer to your ? but I know that someone will chime in and help to alleviate your worries. Good Luck and I am sending you tons and tons of Blue Dust! I know that when I conceived both my boys I dtd alot...at the first sign of ovulation- all the way through, but truly I am not sure timing matters

[sweetsister]

Hi Everyone,

Glad to find this thread for over 35 swayers, thanks for starting this. I would like to join this group. I am 36 and will be 37 in July. I am TTC boy and have been wishing for a boy since 2007. There were lot of family and other issues in the past but this year i am all set to do my attempt. Rest is in god's hands ...i'm going to chase him to grant me my wish.

We actually did our attempt today and i am freaking about the timing. I posted my question in a separate thread and then saw this one. So, i am postig it here too...plz share your opinions.


Yesterday night around 12 PM, i got smiley face and so, as planned decided to do my attempt right then and there. Everything was going perfect but just before my hubby could finish, my daughter started crying...we tried to hurry...but he could not concentrate and i had to go. I spent almost 45 mins to put her back to sleep and after that my hubby could not perform

I then decided to just skip this month n we just went to sleep. However, in the morning i just couldn't handle missing/skipping another month and so decided to give it another try. Long story short, we BD'd around 12:30 PM today...almost 12-13 hrs after first Smiley face. Earlier my plan was to BD ASAP once i get smiley. I'm not sure when do i ovulate after +OPK. Though my LH surge went negative around 3 PM. Was i too late??

Also, what about the swimmers from last night...which he could not release....is that good or bad for TTC boy?? I had 2 big O last night but only one okay one today...and overall, we were not happy with everything ...so it was not as hot as we had thought.

I'm really freaking out thinking that i must be in the GIRL zone O time wise?? Plz share your honest opinions.

Hi ,and welcome
well in my own experience and many others i have talked with i have conceived 2 boys with complete opposite/different timing frequency seasons moon signs ect!!The only constant was diet ive always eaten boy friendly and with both i was gaining weight,catch my drift....So if you are on the boy diet? i wouldnt worry about timing,my thinking is it is more a lifestyle.