UK SMOG Wannabes - March

[Babymad]

i was going to find out at 16 weeks and i kept going on the site to book it and then at the end when i had to pay for it, i just couldnt click the book apointment tab. im just so scared to find out. im dreading it. at the moment im just happy in my little bubble and i dont want to hear something i dont want to. when i think about it, it makes me feel sick. i carnt bring myself to go public with it on fb as i dont think i can handle all the gender comments that will come with it and then i keep thinking to myself when will i go public?? if i leave it too long will ppl think ive been keeping it as a secret?

OH's mother and grand mother keep asking me when my 20 week scan is and i keep lying to them saying 'i havent had my appointment through yet but it will be sometime in april' just so happens i do have my scan date which is the beggining of april but i just dont want the pressure of them knowing im going etc. they keep asking are you going to find out what your having??? and i keep saying im not sure but i dont think so and thy reply with aww you have to find out, you did with the boys and its nice to know what your having so you can be ready for it. then his gran turned round and said you have to put us out of our misery! i was like misery???? you honestly dont know the meaning of the word!

apart from that im quite happy within myself at the moment and thats all that counts i guess. my own mam and sister asked me if i was finding out what im having at the 20 week scan (again they dont know when it is) but i dont really feel they put too much pressure on me! when i told them im not sure my sister did ask me how come and i told her i havent had a suprise yet and she said i suppose and she did say thats why i didnt want to find out with her 3rd boy so i do think she understands how i feel in a way.

I agree the pressure from other people isn't nice at all.....so make sure you do what is best for you hun x

[Babymad]

Morning all,

Sorry to hear many of you are feeling so low. Not sure what to say that hasn't been said already. Other than I send you all a hug and hope you feel better in time.

A old workmate of mine is terminally ill (she's 48), waiting on a call anyday to say she has passed away. So that's on my mind today

Not much to say, but can't go a day (if poss) without saying "hello" to u all. xx

Hugs hun, that is really sad (()) x

[Petal]

CONGRATS to maybe!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! awww little Dave, cant wait to see a pic :-))) hope you are doing well after the birth and are home now x x

Hi Charlie, thinking of you, roll on the next 20 weeks so you can hold that precious little boy :-)))

Omg, i hardly slept all last night, ds3 was up whinging all night, im so hoping it was just his injections he had yesterday and that tonight will be better, fingers crossed!!

We are going to playa de en bossa, have you been there Inglewood? cant wait :-)

Hugs all round ladies x x

[Petal]

Sorry to hear about your friend Inglewood, thats terrible news, just so sad :-( thinking of you too x x

[indigoviolet]

Night ladies, got to work tomorrow so early night.
Thanks pinga for those encouraging words, really need to keep hearing stuff like that now

charlie, babymad, chocolate ((hugs))
Love to everyone else, catch up properly tomorrow

[Inglewood]

Hi ladies, still no phone call, so bless her, she must be holding on.... she has a young heart and that can keep people going longer. She will be missed.

Petal, no never been there! Been to San Antonio twice (once b4 kids, once pg with ds1!!) then port des torrent, then our last hol was 2010 to Es Cana. It's my fav of the Balearic islands, so beautiful. Love it!! so jealous... ds2 still remembers our hol and he was only 3, they talk about it all the time. xx

[threelittlemenandcounting]

Evening ladies lots of hugs to those feeling down today xxx

[Kell]

Inglewood, so sad I hope her passing is a peaceful as possible. My aunt passed away 4 years ago she was only 42, it was so difficult watching her deteriourate (sp) after we found out she was ill.
Hugs xx

[Inglewood]

Thanks Kell, sorry to hear about ur Aunt. So young. x

[chocolate]

LMW - I havent announced on facebook yet, Im waiting till after the 20 week scan because I can then say its def. a boy so dont get all the 'be so nice if you get a girl next' blah blah blah, and also as Ive said to my friends I feel after 2 healthy boys with no problems maybe my luck will run out so want the anomaly scan before publicly announcing. Even then I may not post a pic etc. just make some random pregnancy comment etc.

Inglewood, what awful news, so sad!

My brothers newborn girl is all ok, bowel is all normal and they dont know what the yellow mucus and brown stuff in stomach was, on antibiotics just in case though, so thats a relief.

My scan isnt until something like the 20th April, Im also going to pay £200 for a private medical scan at 29 weeks as someone I know of had this and they picked up the placenta had a problem and was slowly failing so she had him early, I was going to pay £110 for a 3d one anyway so think the extra £90 for a detailed medical check is worth it. OH got a good bonus last month and now a company car so Im justifying the £90 against those bonus's lol