Updated Next Scan in 2 days!

[mama27]

I am going for my gender scan tomorrow and now suddenly I am really worried they will say it's a boy! We didn't sway for a girl but since I had a dream about our little girl almost 4 years ago I have just assumed our baby would be a girl (this is dp's first) As soon as we found out I was pregnant dp said "you do know it's a girl don't you?" and he has made no secret of his desire for a daughter to me. I would love for it to be a girl, my best friend is convinced it's a girl and all my nub guesses have been girl so now it just seems like it's bound to be a boy. I have to admit if they do say it's a boy then I will be disappointed, obviously a healthy baby is the main thing but I am sure you all understand. We haven't told anyone apart from my best friend that we are going and I have persuaded dp not to reveal the gender for a while as I want to give myself time to get used to the idea if it is a boy. Keep trying to imagine what it will feel like if they say boy so I can prepare we tried for 12 months for this baby and it is so wanted, so why do I feel like this?

[babynumber2]

I understand how you feel. I'm 24 weeks and I have been told girl at two scans, but I'm that convinced I couldn't be that lucky as I want this little girl so much that I will have a boy. I am going for another scan in 2 weeks and keep having dreams I go and they say sorry been such a mistake, past two scans were wrong for some reason and baby is in fact boy. I'm trying not to get my hopes up or too excited, but I want to as I want to enjoy pregnancy. This will probably be our last child so feel the pressure for it to be a girl. We have a son already whom we adore, but I've always wanted a girl.

[Cinss]

Hi mama, i just wanted to wish you luck for your scan tomorrow. Also just looking at your sig... I think it would be freakishly abnormal for you to have 4 girls and 4 boys, to me it seems much more likely to have more of 1 than an even split.

[fivebabies]

So this is the first baby you guys will have together?...Your siggy is throwing me off.

Good luck at your scan tomorrow!!!

[mama27]

Yeah this is our first child together and dp doesn't have any other children so his only child. Went for the scan and it is a boy, she took ages looking around in that area and I had already spotted it but still almos burst into to tears when she confirmed it I can't believe how disappointed I feel at not getting our little girl, just had a good cry to dp who is being very understanding. So glad we are keeping it to ourselves right now as I can't face telling anyone. I am sure I will soon come around to the idea of him being a boy but I need to let go of the baby girl I thought I was having first.

[fivebabies]

So sorry you didn't hear girl. Will you guys try again? (((Hugs)))

[Myloves]

I'm sorry you didn't hear girl. I thought the same fivebabies - are you going to try for another in the future?

[Flava]

Im sorry it's not a girl , but for sure your DP will love his little boy!

[mama27]

Yes Flava he definitely will and I know I will too once I get over it.

Myloves and fivebabies- no this is the only child dp wants us to have because of the other 7, he is already talking about a vasectomy.

I am still sad about it, have been trying to look at boy things to give myself some more enthusiasm and spoke of boy names with my best friend today. I guess it will just take time, I feel so ungrateful as at least he is healthy and guilty as it has taken the shine off yesterday for dp

[fivebabies]

Awe, you both will love that sweet lil' baby boy soooo much! Feel better soon Sweetie!