UK SMOG Wannabes - March

[maybebabythree]

Thinking of you today indigo! Can't belive how long we have been at this lark!

[maybebabythree]

I need some advice. Not sure who remembers my mil drama last year? She stayed with us for almost four months, never lifted a finger around the house and when I asked her to, she launched into a attack on me and all she Hayes about me. I threw her out after she shock me while I was pg and dragged my son up the stairs by his wrists while he was screaming. Anyway she wants to come back again in summer for six weeks. We made it perfectly clear that it isn't ok to keep on poking flights to stay with us for months at a time without even checking it's ok with us. Anyway she told me she was looking for flights, so dh asked her what her plans was. She sent him a really rude email saying he was a bad son. He replied saying he was just asking if she could tell us her plans, again she was really rude. Baby was only a week old and I was just out of hospital at the time. We have no where for her to sleep! She will not listen at all! When she is here she spends all the time looking at me as she just trod in me! She hates my friends and family so it's impossible to talk to her. She wants to be here every summer holiday. She wants to know what our plans are but we can't ask about hers. If she doesn't get her way she crys. We only prepaired to have her for seven days at a time but she will not listen and stays for as long as she pleases. I really wanted to run away last year and I can't stand the thought of it this year as I can't escape to work or have family or friends round. I know you can't give advice as all adult suggestions are lost as she always brings out the tears! I work in a male dominated industry and women crying to manipulate people is more than I can tolerate! Gahhhh! What to do???

[indigoviolet]

thanks ladies for all well wishes, will update when I get home.

Maybe- yes, I remember that nightmare of a mil, CANNOT believe she wants to come back after what has happened and with the new baby, that is the last thing you need. You could suggest a hotel? say you just don't have the room anymore...you really have to stand your ground as it will only go wrong if she comes for more than a week. she is totally nuts and like you said, won't listen to reason etc and I doubt she will ever change. You have to think of yourself and the boys. good luck and i hope dh stands by you. you just can't have that stress again.

charlie- glad you are enjoying the baby kicks. How did your appt go?

[Inglewood]

GOOD LUCK INDIGO!!!!!! Thinking of u!! xx

[zanacal]

Hi ladies, didn't log on yesterday as I had a terrible headache and I know I'll never catch up with missed posts so I'm going to jump back in here if that's ok.

Good luck at your scan Indigo!

[Inglewood]

Z, is ur Bp ok???

Just had my last scan!!! Babies both around 5lbs 7oz!!!!! OMG!! Not so teenie twins maybe? Can't believe it, although no wonder my back is killing me with an 11lb'er in there!! lol Date still 3rd April and I've to go in at lunchtime, which I was annoyed to hear, with 2 I'd of thought an early morn section???? However, to go next tues to see Consultant then both sat and sun (wkend b4 section) mornings and evening to have steriod injections 12hrs apart for 2 days. eek!

Indigo, desp to hear ur news!!! xx

[Babymad]

Hi everyone,

Hope everyone had a lovely mothers day x

Indigo ~ Thinking and praying pink Hun, can't wait to hear your news xx

Maybe ~ love the name you have chosen. Hope all is well. You talking about BF and how painful it is has brought back lots of memories....can't believe I'm going to be doing it all again!!

Sunset ~ Pleased your little man is back home

Littlemiss ~ not long til your scan

Lavender ~ pleased you are keeping busy, sounds great!

Charlie ~ lovely to see you posting again

Deaks ~ hope you are doing ok? How many wks are you now?

Hi to everyone else...sorry I can't remember all the posts!

We have been away for a few days, we had a lovely time. Just catching up today on washing/ food shop etc. we've got so many projects going on with the house at the moment I don't know where to start most of the time!

Loving the spring weather

[Babymad]

Z, is ur Bp ok???

Just had my last scan!!! Babies both around 5lbs 7oz!!!!! OMG!! Not so teenie twins maybe? Can't believe it, although no wonder my back is killing me with an 11lb'er in there!! lol Date still 3rd April and I've to go in at lunchtime, which I was annoyed to hear, with 2 I'd of thought an early morn section???? However, to go next tues to see Consultant then both sat and sun (wkend b4 section) mornings and evening to have steriod injections 12hrs apart for 2 days. eek!

Indigo, desp to hear ur news!!! xx

Great to hear those babies are doing well I am so envious that your babies will be here soon as I'm sure I am only a few weeks behind you And I've got another 10, more than likely 12 weeks to go!!!....arrggghhhh!!!!!!!!!!

[HopeandDreamG]

Indigo- GOOD LUCK!!! Thinking of you fingers crossed

[Inglewood]

Babymad, part of me wishes I didn't need a section... to have them early, the actual op and recovery...makes me wonder had I had natural births, I prob would go to term or over too (which is awful), but none of the nasty operation risks!! She made me sign my consent form today...explained all about the scar tissue from 2 prev sections causing probs, might of adhered to my bladder, bowel? bleeding, infection......the list goes on.... Fx it all goes well tho. Get scared sometimes that something happens?? but that's a risk in ANY pg and birth, but just having a few 'worry' days.
Are u feeling any better????? Glad u had a nice trip away, wish we could of done that before now. The nice weather helps perk us all up, even getting some here in Scotland for a change lol