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[Hobbermittens]

i could really use some prayers ladies. im in preterm labor. im so scared. im dialted to 3cm and 100% effaced. the doctors and very nice and the nic -u has orders to prepare for a micro premie. i lost my daughter 2 years ago next week i can't lose my son too. im so scared. if anyone has extra prayers laying around my baby could sure use them.

Oh no! I hope the Dr's can keep him in for a while longer! I will be sending PT your way.

[Hobbermittens]

Thankyou all for your kind words. I know so many have been through this but I feel so alone. I have alot of support at home but I can't help but feel alone. Hopefully I will be back here in a few months though

We are all here for you, Bec!

[DoulaMama]

mfc- I'm a doula and have seen this once(it's very rare). My client had an anterior placenta with placement over the scar. She had no bleeding with it and it was slightly covering the cervix. Her midwife was awesome and positive about it being fine(in 2000 deliveries- many vbac's- she had NEVER seen an accreta). Her placenta did not move until 39 weeks!! It shifted one inch. And then by 40 weeks it moved a teeny bit more- enough for her VBAC attempt. She laboured for 20 hours, pushed for 3 and had her baby Her placenta plopped into a bowl beneath her about 10 mins after the birth No issues whatsoever.

You should know that anterior placentas move slower up the uterine wall than posterior ones plus they tend to move much more near the end of the pregnancy. To be freaking you out this early...it's not good for you They shouldn't even be looking for accreta as it tends to not show up even with an MRI unless it's very bad(which is VERY rare). They should monitor movement but not until your uterus is filled with baby-beyond 35w. Try not to worry so much. Many women gave anterior placentas over top of scars and they don't have a single problem.
The one thing to try is visualization of the placenta- imagine it moving up the uterus Plus there's a homeopathic for it as well- I'll see if I can find the name. Do not take vitamin e- it's causes sticky placenta.
Big hugs to you~ I'm sure that your placenta will move and everything will be fine xo

[Hobbermittens]

MFC, I hope the placenta moved up!

[Foxy]

i could really use some prayers ladies. im in preterm labor. im so scared. im dialted to 3cm and 100% effaced. the doctors and very nice and the nic -u has orders to prepare for a micro premie. i lost my daughter 2 years ago next week i can't lose my son too. im so scared. if anyone has extra prayers laying around my baby could sure use them.

Praying for you and your little guy, hun! Hope he stays put for now! Keep us posted! x

[girlmom]

thank youe everyone, good news is im still pregnant. i was checked last night and still at 3cm. so no change is good. i did not like the new on-call doctor. she was very rude and said i would be lucky and it would be a blessing if my baby died because right now he is facing a lifetime of mental issues and challenges. of course i know this but to remind me just made it worse. so i went hysterical an she asked me if i was trying to bring on labor??? good news is i told her not to come back and i wanted the other doctor. everyday is a milestone! trying to stay positive.

[ELP]

Girlmom, I'm praying hard for you and your little man, if theres was anything else I could do believe I would, hopefully your original Dr will be back soon to take better care of you both xxx

[ELP]

MFC, what a nightmare! I have no knowledge of placenta's but I'm sure that DM's advice above is spot on and the Dr's are just throwing wild possibilities into the air atm

[ELP]

Bec, its hard where you are atm, I know But we are around on here if you want to talk about it, usually people irl don't like to bring things up as they don't want to make things worse or upset you but on here your allowed to not have to be brave all the time, hope that makes sense

[Bumblebee]

thank youe everyone, good news is im still pregnant. i was checked last night and still at 3cm. so no change is good. i did not like the new on-call doctor. she was very rude and said i would be lucky and it would be a blessing if my baby died because right now he is facing a lifetime of mental issues and challenges. of course i know this but to remind me just made it worse. so i went hysterical an she asked me if i was trying to bring on labor??? good news is i told her not to come back and i wanted the other doctor. everyday is a milestone! trying to stay positive.

omg thats awful, I can't believe she would say something like that!! sending you lots of hugs and prayers and hoping your little man stays put!! take care and lets lots of bedrest! xx