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    BabyBeen, your comment was not constructive, it was mean. The only reason sites like this have to exist is because of closed minded people like yourself. Your kind of comments make us feel like we should not have any other feelings than the ones we are told to have. This is not constructive, this is dangerous.

    It is normal emotion to want for something, it is normal emotion to be upset when that thing you want more than anything may not eventuate, this applies to anything in life, so why not with this? One thing I know for certain, just because some of us may want a different sex to the ones we have, does not mean we love our children any less and never, ever will our children be disappointment's to us.
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    BabyBeen has left the building.
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    [QUOTE=BabyBeen;169527]Why try for another baby if you couldn't accept that you had just as much of a chance for a boy as a girl? QUOTE]

    Do you know what site your on ? I am feeling a sense of judgment from your comment which quite frankly i dont need at the moment, I am fully aware of how lucky i am to have healthy children thank you very much ,but i am and have the right to be disapointed that i may never have a girl , PLEASE DONT JUDGE WHAT YOU DONT KNOW

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    4Boys- I banned her. I won't put up with people that judge that have not walked in our shoes. I'm sure she has a boy and a girl and has no idea what it feels like to desire an opposite.


    “Do not judge, or you too will be judged. For in the same way you judge others, you will be judged, and with the measure you use, it will be measured to you

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    I think its natural to cry & far better now to let it all out then bottle it up until bubs is born. I think its very hard to find people who understand the desire for a different gender when u have all the same. Thank goodness for these sort of forums is all I have to say, somewhere where people actually understand that your not ungrateful for wanting a particular gender, its just the way you feel!
    I have had countless people tell me "you know its going to be a boy, dont you". I know people are just trying to prepare me for the real possibility its another boy but sometimes it can get on my nerves a bit.

    Blowing loads of dust your way & hope you get that little miracle you are looking for xxx

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    Hi 4boys, I was looking at your first scan photo and comparing it to mine and I think the "nub" in the first photo is too thin to be a boy nub, I kind that bright white line in fact could be the edge of the cord, its position is roundabout where the cord would be anyway, if you look below that is a bud shape which could mean its a girl, and the fact that there is no protruding nub sticking out higher than 30 degrees compared to some of the other scans on the forum that are boys, I think there is a good chance that your baby could be a girl. The other two photos show no solid evidence to me that its a boy either I can't see a protruding nub like you see in other boy scan photos. I don't think you should give up yet. There's a perfectly good chance still and these photos don't confirm anything. I pray with all my heart you get your baby girl.
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    I can see why you would be thinking this is a boy from that first pic, i think it looks like a boy too, but hey i have been wrong before, and it is way early still. I have my fingers crossed for you that this one turns out to be your girl.

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    Ill add the bladder /potty shot also , does this show anything??
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    PErsonally, I don't see anything on any of the pics that says 100% boys. Praying you get that girl! Your feelings are normal and valid...adn we all get it. Love and blessings to you !
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    I really can't tell with these pictures. With my DS3 we found out the gender and I could see it right away. It was very obvious he was a boy. Your little one may be a boy, but I certainly wouldn't be stocking up on the blue and ruling out the pink just yet.

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